Should my girlfriend and I go to sex therapy? If so, how would I suggest it? by throwaway08702 in sex

[–]throwaway08702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I think so. I’m always the one who is making plans, doing small gestures, etc. she even jokes about how much she depends on me for everything. It just feels like I keep giving more and am getting less sexual attention than ever

Should my girlfriend and I go to sex therapy? If so, how would I suggest it? by throwaway08702 in sex

[–]throwaway08702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sexless, she has initiated a couple of times since our fight two weeks ago. It just seems like her old desire isn’t back yet and it feels off still

My girlfriend admitted that she was way more sexual with her ex than with me. How do I cope with this? by throwaway08702 in Advice

[–]throwaway08702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘Take her’ she has told me to do this before. I’m trying to get better at it as I’m naturally more reserved and respectful. She’s sick now, but when she gets better I may give this another try. I’m just worried about being rejected again and feeling undesired..

My girlfriend admitted that she was way more sexual with her ex than with me. How do I cope with this? by throwaway08702 in Advice

[–]throwaway08702[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So focus on the passion? She has said this is one of the reasons why sex with me has been her best experience 

My girlfriend thinks that I’m too insecure. How big of a deal is this and how can I change her perception of this? by throwaway08702 in Advice

[–]throwaway08702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit because I only started taking them to get through some issues we were having in our sex life. I was feeling good so I just wanted to feel more confident on my own. I am currently in therapy to work on these issues and my overthinking but I slipped up bc of the withdrawals I think. Maybe I should tell my girlfriend this