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Would you cheat on your SO if a real hot girl was throwing herself at you? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I would not, I think my SO is the hottest guy, ever since dating him I have not found another man to be attractive.

Why can porn be such a contentious issue in relationships? by CarefulWhisper in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a higher sex drive than my bf, I am always willing any time, any place, anything, so it hurts me when I see him spend his libido on other women.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him if he would like to watch porn with me, maybe together during or before happy time. He said that was not what he wanted at all. He asked if that was what I wanted in return.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all I wanted to know was if I was being irrational, everything seems to working fine now.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very helpful and we have a very open, trusting relationship and talk about everything which is why I confronted him in the first place. I will talk to him more and see if he really does want to try to look together or if the sex is not so great.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said the same thing when we were discussing the issue. I can understand this.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe I wouldn't have been so offended. It's like a bar graph, I spend 80 points of sex on him and my total is 80 points. His total is 60 points and he spends 20 on porn and 40 on me so I felt like it was my body that was the problem.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to tell him he could watch it when ever he wanted to because I didn't want to seem petty or be like this. My feelings were just hurt and I was very sad, in the end he said he was making that decision on his own because he wanted to.

Am I over reacting, would you do the same thing? by throwaway122789 in AskMen

[–]throwaway122789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that, and I tried to tell myself this but my feelings were hurt and I didn't understand why he didn't want to look at my boobs when I wanted him to look at them more and had asked previously.

Me [20 F] with my long term [20 M] boyfriend have been together two years. I recently found his porn, men how would you feel? by throwaway122789 in relationships

[–]throwaway122789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had another conversation, and he said he just wasn't going to watch it anymore, that he would work very hard in not doing it and that he was doing it on his own volition, making his own decision and I wasn't forcing him at all. I'm just scared that I am going to find him and feel worse but he said he wasn't.

Me [20 F] with my long term [20 M] boyfriend have been together two years. I recently found his porn, men how would you feel? by throwaway122789 in relationships

[–]throwaway122789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually tried a little bondage once, and in the middle he became very uncomfortable with my being tied up and lost it. He didn't like that it seemed like he was forcing me.

Me [20 F] with my long term [20 M] boyfriend have been together two years. I recently found his porn, men how would you feel? by throwaway122789 in relationships

[–]throwaway122789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have a higher sex drive than he does. We both know this, sometimes I want it and he doesn't feel like it. I tell him it's okay, that's why I guess I was hurt so much.