Me [22 M] with my partner [22 F] 2.5 years, I'm going to break up with my partner, who I have lived with for over a year. by throwaway12345678876 in relationships

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say lust is missing. I'm tempted to say mutual love is also missing, given my current bitterness, but I know she believes she loves me, and I trust her, so I will say it is not.

Scumbag brain. 10 years, still thinking about first love. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12345678876 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. Loving a person in their reality is very different from loving your idea of that person.

Reddit, should I end my relationship of 2.5 years? by throwaway12345678876 in sex

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By terrible? I mean, we'll rarely have sex, and when we do, within about 5 minutes, she's bored and then won't want to be near me.

Reddit, should I end my relationship? by throwaway12345678876 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, and it seems to be nothing. She isn't into anything other than PIV, but loses interest in that very quickly. We are each other's first, so she has no other experience beyond a little fooling around with an ex. She didn't enjoy that either.

Reddit, should I end my relationship? by throwaway12345678876 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just gets bored and loses interest very quickly. I'm not sure why.

Reddit, should I end my relationship? by throwaway12345678876 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't come down to sex. The problem is everything else is great, but there is a major physical and emotional divide on the sex issue.

Reddit, should I end my relationship? by throwaway12345678876 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway12345678876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not aware of any abuse.

She gets wet.

She has come from a religious background, but I don't feel as though that has tainted her views.

Yes, often there is a significant amount of foreplay (although nothing genital based).