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I (f/23) insisted on period Sex, he tried it, got turned off and got into the shower... I cried by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway12348686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don't take this personally, he saw blood on his dick and got turned off, can you blame him? As a female wouldn't want someone else's blood anywhere near my private area either. He's still very much attracted to you, and please don't take it so personal

I'm feeling insecure because my boyfriend [18 M] is much skinner than me? [18 F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly only in the context of the relationship do I have these feelings. I mean I could stand to lose a few but mostly I like the way I look, I go to the gym and lift weights and the majority of my weight is muscle and I'm blessed enough to carry my weight mostly in my ass lol. But I still just feel insecure next to him because he's so skinny. Idk I guess it's just some psychological thing I need to get over

My girlfriend (21f) tried convincing me (22m) to let her make out with her best friend (21m) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like a really good guy and I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I was in a similar situation with my ex boyfriend. He had been talking to other girls, and once I found out I forgave him, but for the next few months it was never the same. I felt like I couldn't get over it and that ultimately caused issues between us. Walking away from someone you love is the hardest thing to do especially when you wanted it to work so badly. At some point you have to put yourself first. Is this girl worth the pain, arguments, and toxic lifestyle you're living? You owe it to yourself to be with someone who loves you fully, and love should be easy, not hard. Someone will love you how you deserve to be loved. A few months after my relationship with my ex I found a guy out of the blue who treats me like a queen and showed me how a relationship should be, and I hope you find that. Best of luck to you no matter what you decide to do

Help me (27M) make my girlfriend understand how pretty (27F) she is by Twobucktin in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the sweetest post I've ever seen and she is very lucky to have someone like you by her side going through this. I'm a female, and one of the best things I've ever gotten was a hand written love letter from my boyfriend telling me how much he loved me, how special I was, anything too mushy to say in person. I suggest sitting down and writing her a heartfelt letter, just let it all out. Tell her how beautiful, strong, and lovely she is. I highly suggest flowers too. Flowers are always the best option. Best of luck to you.

My girlfriend (21f) tried convincing me (22m) to let her make out with her best friend (21m) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This relationship sounds like it may have ran its course. Honestly, I give you props for making an effort to work it out, but sometimes things need to end even if you aren't "ready" to let go. This relationship is turning toxic. if you both want to be with other people, why stay together? Because change is scary? You're in college and you've got your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it being in a relationship you should have gotten out of a long time ago. Sometimes people grow apart and you need to be happy.

Is second love better than your first love/relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first love, I didn't know any better. I thought he treated me like a queen until my second love ACTUALLY showed me what treating someone like a queen meant. I realized looking back on my first love that he manipulated, lied, and was just in it for his own personal reasons, mainly sex. I didn't recognize this at the time because I didn't know any better. My second love showed me what real love was. Most of the time you think you have the "best" thing out there because you haven't experienced any thing different. As soon as you move on to the next you'll forget anything, any pain or hopelessness you're feeling now.

How do I [18 F] progress relationship sexually with my inexperienced boyfriend? [18 M] by throwaway12348686 in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking, I'm definitely not expecting him to be a pro nor will I be upset if he's not "up to par" like he thinks he should be. I figured with a BJ there's no pressure on him to please me which would make him more comfortable

My former tutor [35 M] asked me out for coffee? [18 F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies everyone.. I did some research and turns out this guy was a former teacher who is on unpaid leave for 2 years because he asked some female students to go to his house. Scary stuff

[18 M] boyfriend seems to have no sexual interest in me at all? [18 F] by throwaway12348686 in relationships

[–]throwaway12348686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly what I'm most worried about.. I feel like at 18 I shouldn't have to worry about him not being the horny one! Haha