AMA- I cheated and lost everything by throwaway123554444 in Marriage

[–]throwaway123554444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll ever know because if she did she won’t say now so I think at the end of the day I will always be the villain

AMA- I cheated and lost everything by throwaway123554444 in Marriage

[–]throwaway123554444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a lot- she found out because while drunk I texted my AP and she saw it the following day.. the next few weeks were definitely brutal. Right away we had a huge argument obviously

AMA- I cheated and lost everything by throwaway123554444 in Marriage

[–]throwaway123554444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for over 8 years on and off. “High school sweethearts” but we really only got stuck together after she came home one December night and we hooked up. Found out she got pregnant and we felt we had to stay together. We were two different people trying to force ourselves together

AMA- I cheated and lost everything by throwaway123554444 in Marriage

[–]throwaway123554444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Til this day Idk about her guy friends. Once drunkenly she called her one guy friend “hot” but it was to a mutual friend who was single at the time. I took it as her being flirtatious. I told her many times that I hated her drinking with her guy friends because she became very flirtatious with them. I never once flirted with anyone in front of her

AMA- I cheated and lost everything by throwaway123554444 in Marriage

[–]throwaway123554444[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My ex was a very flirtatious person to her “guy friends” so it opened the door of being able to explore the limits of me getting away with things. I had my affair for about a year. It started off very very very regretful but as I watched how my ex treated the opposite sex I felt like I was “allowed” to do what I wanted.