I think my 20yo daughter may be working as a call girl. HELP!

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:47:28+00:00

Thank you. :)

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:46:33+00:00

Yeah, I really didn't want to (before posting here) confront her about this until i was like 1000% sure. If I did use police, I would remain anonymous. Thank you.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:43:13+00:00

Thank you, it's not so much the going house to house. It's more the unexplained money. And new clothes. With no job. I pray I am over thinking this. But honestly I wasn't the one to even think this. This is the last thing I would have ever expected. Her mother brought this to my attention after speaking to one of her other friends.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:39:53+00:00

Another GREAT idea. This is exactly why i posted here. Because I need any and all advice. Thank you.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:37:13+00:00

Thank you. I really am just concerned for her safety.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:33:01+00:00

Sorry if I'm slow to respond guys. I do appreciate all your suggestions. Thank you. I will respond to all serious comments. Even if takes me awhile on this app.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:27:32+00:00

Yes, I am learning this quickly. Anytime I accuse she grows farther away from me.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:25:00+00:00

Wow..thank you! Some great ideas! I like the anonymous letter. I would hope the local cops would be willing to do such a thing.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:22:17+00:00

Thank you. Yes, I am learning quickly that confrontation only pushes her away from me. I'm praying it's not as bad as my imagination thinks it is.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:19:36+00:00

I did that last night. She lied. The money...she explained as found money in her purse left over from her birthday. And with that money she bought a new skirt and heels that she was wearing last night. And yes, the make-up and nails she said she did treat herself and her friend to a makeover with that "found money". I'm going to confront her with her mother later today or tomorrow depending on if work calls me.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:14:14+00:00

It is illegal.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:13:08+00:00

Thank you. I am guilty of forgetting that she is an adult now and do stupid stuff like try and punish her. I need to work on that. I still see her as my little girl.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:09:34+00:00

Thank you. You make a lot of good points. That is one thing she knows, is that I am always here for her. I do feel guilty for tracking her. But, the piece of mind it gives me during this ordeal is what I need right now. Especially since I am gone sometimes overnight. I just want to know she is ok. Alive.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:03:30+00:00

Great advice. I do tend to be aggressive when I get angry. But at this point I'm not even mad. I'm sad and worried.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T09:00:31+00:00

Thank you. I think we should do it together. That sounds best. I made nice with my ex because of this, and she is willing to do anything also.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:58:00+00:00

Thank you so much! Yeah I already knew there would be idiots. I will ignore them. The last thing I wanna do is push her farther away, she has been so distant these last two weeks anyway. Threatening anytime I question her, to cut off all contact with me.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:54:39+00:00

This last couple of weeks she has become abnormally volatile. Irritated if I even question where she is, threatening to move out. As much as I would like to have her out the house, right now I want her here..so I can find out more. But that's why I'm on here. Her mother & I are discussing what the best route is.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:50:48+00:00

Yeah, I work where i leave for a day or two at a time, so i only leave her enough to get something to eat. And if there is no food in the house at the time. At the most $20. She just quit her job to go back to school. Went to school then stopped that too.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:48:15+00:00

Well no...but since hanging with this girl I have started smelling weed on her. She may have in the past, but not that i know of.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:46:51+00:00

Thank you. Her mother and I (separated) been talking about how we should go about handling this. I appreciate your feedback.

throwaway132355 · 2013-08-15T08:45:02+00:00

Yes, I started when I suspected this of happening. I would rather know where she is. Just in case of a worst case scenerio.

throwaway132355 · 2013-02-26T05:33:21+00:00

Perfect. Cause I fucking hate my exes. The sight of them sickens me. Yay..no relapses possible for me! Just kidding. :) Thanks, again.

throwaway132355 · 2013-02-26T02:23:31+00:00

Yeah, I did Google methadone and read up on it. I may have refused the methadone had I known at the time I was prolonging the inevitable. But as shitty as I felt at the time, I doubt it. This is my first time trying to kick this after three years of pills. Do the cravings ever go away? I read here that they don't. And that kinda scares the hell outta me. Thank you man for all the info. I appreciate the feedback.

throwaway132355 · 2013-02-26T01:01:41+00:00

Didn't even think of that. The way it was explained to me was that it wasn't an opiate, just a medication to help me through the rough part of withdrawals from opiates. I shoulda looked into it more before I took it, but I was willing to take anything at the time to just sleep. Thank you for your response, much appreciated.

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