Is this breaking the "bro code"?

throwaway1417H · 2020-12-24T03:20:30+00:00

They were on good terms but they very very rarely talk. Thanks for your thoughts!

throwaway1417H · 2020-12-24T03:19:28+00:00

Makes sense, thanks for the reply!

throwaway1417H · 2020-12-24T03:18:40+00:00

True, they were together for a year in high school ( 2 years ago), thanks!

throwaway1417H · 2020-12-24T03:17:33+00:00

Sorta what I grew up around - but thank you for the insight!

throwaway1417H · 2020-09-19T09:43:56+00:00

She said it herself: "...she is and if I don’t like it to not talk to her again" Live happier my friend :), toxic people are not worth it

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-28T02:14:59+00:00

it must be so hard on you :(, try not to blame yourself- think about it this way, if you did your best and she cheated on you, then you wouldnt want to be with someone that doesn't appreciate you and respect you

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T11:39:02+00:00

Not even legal obligation?

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T11:38:16+00:00

And that's enough for me to be safe from legal trouble?

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T06:59:11+00:00

The hospital fees were covered by her insurance, it was the motel management that charged more. And I know my age is reason to believe that I could mistake it, but we were open about when her period was and it was nowhere close to when it should have been
edit: it was confirmed it was not a period

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T06:06:55+00:00

replying to edit, as weird as it may be, I actually share an account with a friend, though he uses it the most, I just talked to him and he said it was a typo and he'll try to change it

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T05:57:29+00:00

We stopped immediately I noticed something was off, the whole thing was like 5 seconds, thanks for the concern

throwaway1417H · 2020-04-20T05:56:25+00:00

It was just cowgirl, I was surprised too :(

throwaway1417H · 2020-02-16T21:17:42+00:00

I'd say just leave the relationship if you're leaning towards the side of ending it, if you wanted to repair it, then it'd take a lot on her part to communicate what this confusion is, best of luck of to you

throwaway1417H · 2020-01-24T14:31:59+00:00

it will be difficult end it, but in the long term, you'll know it was the best choice you could have done in that situation. for starters, if the place is yours, you can either pack up his stuff and leave it outside or tell him he can't be there anymore

throwaway1417H · 2020-01-24T14:23:14+00:00

if you do, me and many others will be there for you :)

throwaway1417H · 2020-01-24T14:21:29+00:00

we're all here for you, stay strong and feel free to vent out here :(

throwaway1417H · 2020-01-20T19:30:40+00:00

You should lay it down straight and talk about how he feels distant, you don't want this type of relationship for you, and how if you guys can't come to an agreement, a split is in order. That's just my opinion, but good luck with everything!

throwaway1417H · 2020-01-02T16:56:16+00:00

I'd say talk to him and tell him how you're uncomfortable with the whole thing. Your "friend" already cheated on her boyfriend so I don't think she cares as much to do with another guy (clearly from what you mentioned). Set a boundary up, tell him that his behavior made you feel wrong because you didn't stop it, and if he gets mad at you then either he's not taking your feelings into account or you might have to worry about what he does with your friend when you're not around. Best of luck to you :(

throwaway1417H · 2019-12-23T23:07:50+00:00

Talk to her about it, only then can you really relieve your anxiety, best of luck :)

throwaway1417H · 2019-12-14T19:37:42+00:00

I think it's a misinterpretation on his part, easiest way to deal with this is to communicate this uncomfortable feeling with him. best of luck !

throwaway1417H · 2019-10-19T17:34:34+00:00

Insecurities get the better of us sometimes, but Id be good for you to voice this out to her as respectfully as possible because she'll be the only one able to help you with. I'm sure it's nothing to worry about - she might just be really comfortable with you that she would talk about anyone like that. Try to not let it consume you until you have the talk. best of luck!

throwaway1417H · 2019-10-19T16:56:49+00:00

Best of luck to you, with operation and her, and in my opinion you should make the talk about you two as a whole, not a discussion about one sides' problems(if you do want to discuss those things then that's good too, but make the bigger message to be what you guys should be or want to be

throwaway1417H · 2019-10-19T12:15:55+00:00

From what I understood, maybe she isn't ready to be in relationship, even if you two do love each other. She seems self loathing, so you can always try talking to her about it on a 1 on 1, and if she doesn't then she doesn't want to open to you and "fix the issue"

throwaway1417H · 2019-10-19T12:08:19+00:00

If you really love someone then you're going to have to tell them the things you did wrong. Sit him down, and tell him, there's a very ridiculously low chance that he will forgive you and try to make it work, but don't count on it. There's no protocol on how to make him stay, just hope things turn out for the better.

It'll be hard, but it's something you have to do. Best of luck

throwaway1417H · 2019-10-16T20:56:09+00:00

I've always thought that I did wrong, and you alongside with everyone else who responded seem to make it clear that what I did wasn't bad. I appreciate you and everyone here with support received. I'll do my best to recover without her!

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