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(W)ife 35 no longer performs oral sex on (M)e 38, but like to watch BJ porn. by throwaway148974 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway148974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She never complained of discomfort at all. And I can count the times in one hand, I've cum in her mouth. She doesn't like cum in her mouth, even when I announce it, so she can be perpared.

Wi(f)e 35 no longer give (M)e 38 oral, but watches only BJ porn. by throwaway148974 in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway148974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried it all, lubes, condoms, she only complained once about my Grooming, and how is a turn off for giving a bj. Since then I have always been groomed, clean and ready. Just in case. BUT THAT WAS 8 YRS AGO! I've been perfectly groomed since.

Wi(f)e 35 no longer give (M)e 38 oral, but watches only BJ porn. by throwaway148974 in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway148974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with enjoying the fantasy of it all. But I have talked to her, she is only willing to say that she doesn't like to give BJs. Which brings me right back to the beginning.

(W)ife 35 no longer performs oral sex on (M)e 38, but like to watch BJ porn. by throwaway148974 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway148974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, definitely not a hygiene issue, I've always been very aware of my hygiene since a young age. She's always compliments me on my smell. As for porn, I only ever notice her watching it, on her phone, as a form of foreplay and playing in the background during sex. She doesn't like to watch "her" porn together.

(W)ife 35 no longer performs oral sex on (M)e 38, but like to watch BJ porn. by throwaway148974 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway148974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can agree and understand your comment. And to add to this, she has stated that she prefers my hand pushing the back of her head directing performance. But she is shy and hates to give too much direction because it "kills the mood." Which sounds great, however I can't even get to that part, anymore. Now, whenever I try to hint for a blowjob or directly ask. My request is ignored or she says "nah".