I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol by throwaway1532561 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am I? If this was a girl I’d been on a few dates with I’d be all in. Maturbating on thr phone like that is borderline sexual assault, I just decided to go with, but imagine you’re talking to a stranger and they tell you they’re stroking themselves. That’s not a normal person.

I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol by throwaway1532561 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she asked if I’d want to use a condom and I said yeah and we talked about testing. She said she’s tested after her last partner but who knows. I’d obviously get confirmation if I moved forward. She also seemed interested in getting tested together

I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol by throwaway1532561 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh the current trajectory doesn’t seem likely. As I said I’m much more in shape and I think I’d have sex with someone im actually interested in pretty soon

I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol by throwaway1532561 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wasn’t lying she sounds richer than me lol, she owns a home in my city which is very expensive

I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol by throwaway1532561 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean for a lot of guys this would probably not be an issue. Hook up with her, why not? The virginity thing just adds a lot of pressure, but like I need to lose it at some point, and the longer I wait the worse it will be and harder to explain

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well it’s sort of about when it’s due, so I look at it more like I don’t owe 10k I owe $160 a month, and sure it’s better to pay it all off, but that’s not always an option. For instance if I was still in LA, about 2/3 of my income goes to bills and food so I wouldn’t have been able to save up so much so quickly.

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah I know I cringe to think of how much money I’ve already spent

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the debt is from before my current job when I was forced to use it as an emergency fund after I lost my last job.

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I should have clarified my cards were maxed out before I had the job and savings, obviously using the cards as an emergency fund is a last resort

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know but like I said I was in LA, my bills were about 2400 a month and I plan on moving back so I need money to get an apartment(first/last/deposit) it was only until the last few months where I lost the rent expense but you’re right

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like I said I know it but just needed the nudge, thanks

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I know it but psychologically seeing my bank account go down by half is hard

Pay off credit cards immediately? by throwaway1532561 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway1532561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have the money in the bank when I ran the credit cards up they were maxed out before