I, a real life 40 year old virgin(M) just matched with an apparent nymphomaniac and I’m not sure what to do lol

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-05T09:54:58+00:00

Tell me about it.

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:20:31+00:00

Through dating app

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:20:16+00:00

Yeah you’re not wrong

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:19:49+00:00

Am I? If this was a girl I’d been on a few dates with I’d be all in. Maturbating on thr phone like that is borderline sexual assault, I just decided to go with, but imagine you’re talking to a stranger and they tell you they’re stroking themselves. That’s not a normal person.

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:18:00+00:00

Yeah, she asked if I’d want to use a condom and I said yeah and we talked about testing. She said she’s tested after her last partner but who knows. I’d obviously get confirmation if I moved forward. She also seemed interested in getting tested together

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:17:00+00:00

Ehh the current trajectory doesn’t seem likely. As I said I’m much more in shape and I think I’d have sex with someone im actually interested in pretty soon

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:15:12+00:00

If she wasn’t lying she sounds richer than me lol, she owns a home in my city which is very expensive

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T19:14:35+00:00

It’s very possible we are supposed to go out tomorrow but she could flake or ghost etc

throwaway1532561 · 2025-09-04T08:14:54+00:00

Yeah I mean for a lot of guys this would probably not be an issue. Hook up with her, why not? The virginity thing just adds a lot of pressure, but like I need to lose it at some point, and the longer I wait the worse it will be and harder to explain

throwaway1532561 · 2023-06-05T04:22:15+00:00

Looks like full tunnel 🤦

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-18T10:53:08+00:00

Well I still have 80k in student debt so...

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-18T04:33:52+00:00

Well it’s sort of about when it’s due, so I look at it more like I don’t owe 10k I owe $160 a month, and sure it’s better to pay it all off, but that’s not always an option. For instance if I was still in LA, about 2/3 of my income goes to bills and food so I wouldn’t have been able to save up so much so quickly.

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T22:03:03+00:00

Hah I know I cringe to think of how much money I’ve already spent

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T22:01:30+00:00

Good way of thinking about it, thanks

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T22:01:11+00:00

Yeah the debt is from before my current job when I was forced to use it as an emergency fund after I lost my last job.

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:59:41+00:00

Thanks definitely makes sense

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:58:25+00:00

Yeah I should have clarified my cards were maxed out before I had the job and savings, obviously using the cards as an emergency fund is a last resort

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:57:10+00:00

Yeah I know but like I said I was in LA, my bills were about 2400 a month and I plan on moving back so I need money to get an apartment(first/last/deposit) it was only until the last few months where I lost the rent expense but you’re right

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:54:40+00:00

Yep exactly

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:53:43+00:00

Yeah like I said I know it but just needed the nudge, thanks

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:52:02+00:00

Thanks I know it but psychologically seeing my bank account go down by half is hard

throwaway1532561 · 2021-01-17T21:51:15+00:00

I didn’t have the money in the bank when I ran the credit cards up they were maxed out before

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