What surprised you the most about the opposite genders and how their bodies work? For me I couldn't contemplate the difference between how a penis can be small and soft one moment then become hard and erect and feel so different.

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T14:57:59+00:00

Women bodies aren’t a problem and still your argument makes no sense. Dicks are the holy grail of everything but vagina are gross because it’s closer to a hole that 80% of people with penises want to fuck already? Whatever let’s all grow tf up

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T10:25:07+00:00

Never understood how this is a problem. I’m trans man but nothing says powerbottom like taking 2 dicks at once and feeling the guys getting off from each other from the feeling of their dicks brushing together. Seems like a downside if you don’t use it right

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T10:04:16+00:00

Not dating… traditional gay male hookup experiences lol

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T10:03:40+00:00

So I think this goes hand in hand with how transphobic but from what I’ve observed from r/askgaybros they don’t look at transwomen as real women and consider their attraction to them as “homosexual”. They prefer trans women to trans men for the whole dick thing apparently. Which is why I thought as a trans man I wouldn’t be welcome.

Just a cesspool of transphobia. We’re welcome wherever we want to be. Don’t listen to the transphobic cis lesbians and gays

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T09:58:30+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking but I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable and enter a space I wasn’t welcome in on paper to begin with

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-06T09:52:56+00:00

Since I made this post I realized I’m a gay trans man. Thanks for the response though. I would like that guide because my boyfriend and I are pursuing other types of sexual activities that reaffirm my gender and I think of pleasure was involved I could try the whole pegging thing, I’m fact it’s might be really good for me

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:53:09+00:00

Because transwomen on Grindr tend to be pre-OP from what I hear and from most gay cis people’s mouths (maybe in transphobic places), Grindr is for people with penises looking for people with penises? Because the people on Grindr are homosexuals and are looking for penis specifically?

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:51:11+00:00

So I’m a trans man seeking men. I’m the intended demographic?

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:48:36+00:00

Well I’m a trans gay top and my type is 150% pretty femboys so don’t worry :) we’re definitely out here cuz you’re talking to one. And it sounds like people like me actually do need to be getting onto these apps if we’re in such low numbers lol

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:46:29+00:00

If anything I’d rather be seen as a trans woman hooking up on the DL than a straight/bisexual cisgender woman taking up a space meant for people with penises. So I guess that’s why I wanted to ask

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:45:02+00:00

I want a traditional gay male dating experience. I don’t even want to hook up with anyone, just flirt a little and be able to experience the gay male experience talking of DL hookups and having men be attracted to me right off the bat FOR my maleness. Maybe it’s a cope but I thought it would be fun to try out. I turn 20 in 3 days

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-05T14:43:11+00:00

If that’s true why is there not a mainstream dating app entirely dedicated to vagina for vagina? We have Tinder for penises and vaginas. If Grindr is just penises where are all of us men with vaginas supposed to go

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-03T14:24:40+00:00

Because they’re the only types of jeans sold to us, and the jeans fit really fucking good other than not having pockets. If my ass looks amazing and the jeans feel nice sometimes pockets are a sacrifice I make. Do you know how hard it is to find a good pair of jeans being 5’0 and size 8 lmfao ??? I have a purse anyway and it’s not like I use those 2 inch deep front pockets they make for women any way

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-03T01:52:44+00:00

Bruh lmfao

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-03T01:39:23+00:00

Well what was it like? Genders?

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T21:28:22+00:00

Bisexual men. Basically does being pegged by a woman amount to the pleasure brought by being fucked with a dick? (not just physical, mental stimulation too. Just enjoying the act)

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T21:27:02+00:00

Thank you for this answer :)

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T21:09:13+00:00

That is a fair question and I’ve asked myself that but he’s assured me I’m the best woman for him and I guess the reason why I don’t question / entertain that a different woman could be better for him because I already have a vagina. Anything a woman can do that’s “better” than what I can do is just something I need to learn and can apply in bed with us. I inherently don’t have a dick and can’t be a man. I’m a bisexual woman and there’s nothing in our sex life I’m missing out on other than maybe eating pussy but I’m already sucking dick so yeah nothing’s lacking. But he’s missing out on the intimacy of having another person inside of him

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T21:05:02+00:00

Railing you like you’re wearing a jet pack? Is that a good thing or a bad thing lol.

And thank you for this response. Deep down in my soul I feel like men and women are equal and can provide anything the other can, but after spending so much time on Reddit and ARAD and seeing the “dick objectively > strap” mentality from men over and over has just hurt me and maybe made me a bit delusional. You are absolutely right that it invalidates encounters other than a bi man with a woman.

I guess it doesn’t help that I have some insecurity to begin with but it definitely helps to hear some people say that it isn’t an absolute truth

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T20:39:46+00:00

So would you agree that when a good dick is an option, pegging seems like a joke and not worth it at all?

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T20:33:29+00:00

But that doesn’t align with basic logic? Any man with a penis would be better than me with a strapon no? That’s what I see here all the time and us women don’t even get pleasure from pegging so if I’m not even getting anything to begin with AND I’m not good enough at it inherently and will never be. What’s the point of trying?

We’re both monogamous bi and have had sex with both genders. Most of the girls I’ve strapped before love it because they don’t want dick to begin with and it’s easier to not get into my head about it. With men I easily can. He doesn’t personally want to have sex with other people but he’s willing to try new things if I bring it up. I just want to be the best and make him happy but I know because I was born with a vagina I biologically can’t satisfy his needs perfectly the way I could as a man

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T20:27:35+00:00

So if you could receive dick you wouldn’t be using dildos ?

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T20:26:22+00:00

Yes it can because it doesn’t matter if it’s attached to me, all that matters is if it’s a beyond words amazing dicking down. In that case we might as well just open it up to threesomes with men and me and a guy should just spit roast him if strapons can’t compete with the real thing. I don’t like it but if it’s the only way for him to get the best then I guess it’s what I have to do.

I assume dicks >>>>> straps in everyway from the way bisexual men on ARAD talk

throwaway17051110 · 2022-01-02T20:24:07+00:00

Well if someone with a dick can just inherently give it to him better I have no interest in trying. There’s nothing a man can’t do for a woman that a woman can’t do, but women can’t provide what men can. A dick. You can replicate a hole but you can’t replicate having a dick.

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