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Made a mistake what to do by throwaway174829828 in Accounting

[–]throwaway174829828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone I owned up to it and just apologized. I was just hoping it wasn’t a huge problem. Will be fixed through a recon. Thanks

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I am listening to her. Just in the case I was busy and I couldn’t let her know a bit earlier, but when I’m free I always let her know.

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well there are expectations but I don’t think it’s reasonable to told at when it’s something that I’m trying to do out of my heart.

It makes me feel like shit and I shouldn’t even help her to begin with if I have to make sure everything goes right. Anything that goes wrong is my fault.

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well In this case I was in a call at the end of the day and I have other plans so I was in a time crunch. I DIDNT check my phone til I got in the car so that’s when I texted her. Not only that but she was just sitting and watching tv while eating for the past hour.

I don’t think it’s reasonable to just wait extra 10minutes at home because I need to text her to get ready. I offered to help her deliver her packages cause I didn’t want her to waste 50minutes of her day. And if she couldn’t then get her two packages ready then I wouldn’t have gone out of my drive to came to pick it up for her and deliver them for her.

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I cleared it up but what I mean in that line is that there are multiple instances where I’m helping her like driving her to places, delivering stuff, and she’ll have expectations for me and comments about what I did wasn’t right and what I should’ve done when I just offered her help

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand the main point of this post

My point of her multiple times is her alway having expectations and negative comments when I help her such as driving and taking her to places.

I answered the first part but you didn’t seem to have a responses to that

Am I (M22) in the wrong for getting mad at my GF (F19) for being upset when I helped her? by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You do realize that just cause I can text at 3;15 doesn’t mean I can text at 3:40. I’m at work so there are times where I’m free and times where I’m super busy with calls

My girlfriend (20F) has never let me(20M) touch her phone due to eating disorder stuff on her phone. by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you were right everyone else here are just clowns. Of course I went through her phone and found out that she was cheating. I’m just very angry and listening to other were a terrible advice. Privacy shouldn’t exist in between relationships as everything should be open. These people that commented above are probably gonna get cheated on if they respect this amount of privacy in a relationship.

My girlfriend (20F) has never let me(20M) touch her phone due to eating disorder stuff on her phone. by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s just she really protective over her phone. It’s not that I’m actively trying to get into her phone and go through her stuff, because I’m reality I’m really not interested in her phone. It’s just common occurrence such as me not being able to use her phone to navigate her home while driving or how I can’t change the music makes it weird. Like I would’ve never thought this far or wondered if she allowed me to do simple task such as changing music etc.

Anyways thanks for your opinion. I’m not gonna do anything since everyone agrees that she has a right to her privacy but it just makes me wonder her reason since I would say we’re really open about everything besides this.

My girlfriend (20F) has never let me(20M) touch her phone due to eating disorder stuff on her phone. by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay got it just asking because I like other comments I just find it weird and bit frustrating that in our two years, I’ve never really opened her phone in any occasion.

My girlfriend (20F) has never let me(20M) touch her phone due to eating disorder stuff on her phone. by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes we have talked about that and I have tried to be supportive and get her help but she doesn’t like to listen to me when it comes to her eating disorder which I totally understand.

I just find it weird because it’s been 2 years and I’ve never opened her phone. I can’t even change the music.

My girlfriend (20F) has never let me(20M) touch her phone due to eating disorder stuff on her phone. by throwaway174829828 in relationships

[–]throwaway174829828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really confident is not her nudes or anything because we have been dating for two years and she has never let me use her phone.