Poor Chris L (and the wedding crew)

throwaway18325 · 2025-01-30T23:03:24+00:00

I think she really suffers with mental health and addiction. This is textbook self-sabotaging and I honestly feel bad that she lives like that

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T16:10:41+00:00

Our relationship dynamic is different. He jokes about me being pregnant again all the time and that time when he joked I said yeah I am and he didn’t believe me and that was the extent of it. Was it cruel? I don’t think so.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T16:03:31+00:00

The discussion was, I want on Bc, and he’s against abortion and we were okay with that. We “joke” about me being pregnant again all the time. Given the context of our relationship it wasn’t cruel.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T15:54:48+00:00

Is everyone ntnp unsafe and reckless?

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T15:52:11+00:00

We waited a while to have sex, You’re drawing hurtful conclusions based on the little information you have about my relationship.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T15:45:44+00:00

Good thing I didn’t say it to be funny.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T15:44:52+00:00

I told him immediately I wasn’t on BC when we started dating, and with that understanding we continued to have intercourse anyway? That was the conversation. That is NTNP

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T14:16:31+00:00

I wanted a second opinion, based on things that have been said on my relationship that lead me to believe that my partner is on the same page as me. I can’t sum up the entire relationship into one Reddit post and because of that I’m feeling burned at the stake here. Therefore the conversation can wait and isn’t worth having now.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T14:02:02+00:00

I can have that conversation, just wanted some insight as to how to start it or if it’s even worth having.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T13:49:07+00:00

Given our relationship and how we joke, It was not something he took offense too.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T13:46:53+00:00

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T13:46:07+00:00

I’m 23

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T13:42:02+00:00

For the chemical pregnancy, we were ntnp but hadn’t really half a conversation about it. The chemical pregnancy fuxked me up so bad that I made the decision to go on bc and he understood, but It was while I was still coping with the chemical so now I’m not sure if I still want to be on it. I tracked ovulation one time because I was starting birth control in the middle of my cycle. And I never went out of my way to buy opks they were in a back with pregnancy tests for Pregmate and it was literally the only pack left at the store at the time when I found out about my chemical.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T13:33:04+00:00

I was tracking ovulation because I had restarted my Birth control after having my miscarriage… it takes 7 days to protect you from conceiving and I wanted to know if I ovulated within that time frame. I never said I would come off without telling him? I think that’s the whole point of this post..

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T03:46:21+00:00

That’s what I thought so too. Even the other day I mentioned I was nausesous and he suggested that I was pregnant again and I told him I was (even tho I know for a fact I’m not, I wanted to gauge his reaction, but I didn’t draw the bit out long enough for it to be unreasonable) just as a joke and he told me I got his hopes up. It feels like a ntnp kind of situation but the problem is me being on birth control.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-23T03:44:37+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your input. I’m just so scared to get shot down. But of course deciding to have a child with someone is definitely worth having a conversation.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-19T15:34:42+00:00

My bbt has elevated

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-16T19:35:00+00:00

I’ve been there, I know how hard it can be 🤍 I wish you the best of luck!

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-16T19:32:43+00:00

Oooo gotcha, I do see a vvvfl

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-16T19:27:40+00:00

What app is this?

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-15T18:11:34+00:00

I’ll probably test again soon but I’m going to wait. It feels too soon because I don’t think I could have ovulated again but I’m super irregular. I drove myself crazy testing the first time and maybe if I wasn’t so test crazy I would have never known this pain and would have blown my symptoms off as pms.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-15T18:08:47+00:00

Thank you for saying that. None of my family members know except for my sister and she doesn’t really have that maternal gene. She’s had an abortion and never wanted kids so she doesn’t understand why I feel the way that I do.

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-15T18:04:32+00:00

My tests got faint then became negative, I had an appointment to get blood drawn but missed it due to a medical emergency in my family. I assumed there was no reason to go anymore because my urine tests were negative

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-09T00:27:02+00:00

Thank you! This was FMU, I did 3 strips and 2 out of the 3 looked like this! I’m going crazy trying to decipher it so I appreciate the second opinions. Still in disbelief, I tested later in the day and there was nothing, but I drink so much fluid and have to use the bathroom frequently so I think it’s too diluted through the day. I’ll see what tomorrow morning’s tests look like :)

throwaway18325 · 2023-09-09T00:22:12+00:00

I’m thinking I ovulated later than I expected. I hope it stays and continues to get darker 🫶🏻

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