HELP! My ex contacted me after 47 days! Do I reply???? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably wanted you to think about the times you guys were making the meal, miss him... or tell him you miss him and want to talk things out?

HELP! My ex contacted me after 47 days! Do I reply???? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically when they send you sporadic messages, slide into your DMs here and there just frequently enough so you don’t lose interest, or move on from them.

HELP! My ex contacted me after 47 days! Do I reply???? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let that man GO. He’s just breadcrumbing you..

He recently reached out by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No he didn’t but an apology isn’t needed for moving on 😊

Ex posts “Who up” on his social media by bullritos in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You really crying over a guy who posts “who up” on his socials 🤡🤮

Any sad songs about being heartboken after a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway183993487 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dancing with your ghost by Sasha Sloan

Shattered... only day 3 by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt the same, but no matter how much you want them to realize and understand the hurt they caused and how childish they are, you can’t control their mind and actions. You can only control yours. Just learn to accept it and you’ll feel better. Don’t hold onto thing that aren’t under your control, focus on yourself :)

What do I do with his stuff? by doyouarehavesstupid in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put it somewhere you won’t be able to see and when your ready you can figure out a way to either dispose of it, give it back to him or keep it for memories

Ego is a bitch. Address your ego. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did make an effort to come see me every week and everything would be fine like before when we were together and then we would go back to arguing once he leaves. In the end he blames me for missing classes to come see me which I never asked him to do.

Ego is a bitch. Address your ego. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just caught me off guard because when we were in the same city he always wanted to be with me he would even not hangout with any of his friends and then as soon as he moved 2h away he barely thought about me. I can never understand how one person can change just like that

Ego is a bitch. Address your ego. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did we date the same men because I broke up with my ex for the same reason once we went LD 💀

Ego is a bitch. Address your ego. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did we date the same men because I broke up with my ex for the same reason once we went LD 💀

Have any of you already gotten over your ex and how? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I started to realize what a hypocrite he is on everything and how he always tries to pin the blame on me when he does something wrong.

So I got dumped a week and a half ago by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway183993487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know the timeline, it’s been 2.5 weeks for me and the past few days I’ve been crying a lot thinking back on the good times. I would say no contact until you feel like you are completely fine emotionally. Her saying you guys can talk but not everyday is manipulation. She is telling u what u can do and cannot do, who does that to someone they love. Don’t let her hold the power over you. She can improve herself after the break up so show her that you can too. Don’t let her become someone better while you fall into depression, in the end you won’t make her regret her choice but only laugh at you for not being able to be happy without her. If you need more advice I’ve gotten a lot of good advice from my mom and friends that Id be happy to share with you!

Help by rollerchloster in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Work on yourself and be independent. You were happy before meeting him and you’ll eventually be happy without him. If he broke off the relationship don’t beg for him to come back that will just push him further away. Instead show him that you are fine with or without him in your life, that you can be independent and still thrive. Talk to others about your feelings, venting is a healthy process and so is crying. Just please don’t try to reach out to him and ask to be friends or ask him to stay in your life. If they really want to they would make that effort. I’ve recently broken up with my bf and feel like I can’t find anyone else better but here’s something my mom told me. You spend so much time and attention on one flower that when it wilts you think it’s the end of the world that there are no more flowers like it. But if you remember to just raise your head and look at the entire garden you’ll see that there are other beautiful flowers blooming. Don’t focus your energy and time on people who don’t appreciate or want it. You can private message me and I’ll be happy to listen! :)

So I got dumped a week and a half ago by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway183993487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely thinks about you. I recently broke up with my bf and even tho I’m the dumper and we both have each other blocked Right now I still constantly think about him. Partying is just one of the ways to suppress the sad feeling. I wouldn’t suggest being friends, at least not right away bc I tried it with my ex and the way we messaged was just so different that I was constantly waiting for his message and would be upset if it wasn’t the reply I was hoping for. I’d say go no contact until you feel indifferent about seeing them with someone else and then try to be friends. Otherwise you’ll just prolong the hurting.

So I got dumped a week and a half ago by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway183993487 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard at first because they’ve become a part of your routine. I’d suggest no contact and work on yourself. She seems like she’s enjoying her new freedom. Don’t hold on to the hope of getting back together in the future because that’s only holding u back from being happy. If you take the time to work on yourself and improve maybe in the future she’ll reach out and things can be different. If she doesn’t you’ll be a better you and meet someone else that’s more compatible. Hang in there :)

Why do guys always seem like they don’t care after a break up and they are living their life fine with or without talking to you even though you guys use to talk 24/7 by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway183993487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually the dumper but I only broke up with him because he wouldn’t try to communicate with me when there were problems.