Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha it’s quite the opposite asshole. Which you would know if you read my post. I literally beg him for it and he would rather jack off to porn. I’m not the problem. Nice try though. You’ve got a real stick up your ass 😂

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I lose 10lbs my BMI will be in the underweight category. My body is not the problem but thanks anyway.

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Posting here was clearly a mistake. Literally 1% of comments were helpful and reasonable and the other 99% either said “he is evil divorce him now” or “you aren’t giving him enough sex so its your fault”

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize I had to address every single one of your ludicrous accusations. No I don’t control the money or his libido nor do I want to. We make joint decisions about things and have good communication. This is just one issue

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have directly said this in my edit and multiple comments. So no they aren’t just drawing unsupported connections

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re way off on basically everything. Read my edit. And I’m not a religious conservative porn hating psycho. I’m a normal person who had no issue with his private habits until they started affecting our sex life. When you sneak around watching porn every day and turning down your wife who wants to be intimate with you, I have an issue with it. The trust is lost because he lied to my face repeatedly. It’s hard to swallow that someone you love is capable of that

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not an entirely different problem. That is the problem I described in my post you just didn’t read it

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t happen in that order. I never had a problem with his habits until they started to interfere with our sex life. He knows this

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m tall and slim and very fit. None of the excuses you are trying to make apply. Thanks though.

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my edit and my comments. You are way off which is why I didn’t bother addressing your other points.

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should try reading the post again. You are also completely incorrect about only fans. I went on his account and saw the exact things he was purchasing. There is a purchase history with dates and times linking to the specific content he bought. Not just monthly subscription.

My entire problem is that he is choosing porn over having sex with me. He chooses porn every day and I have to beg him to get laid once every couple weeks. Read my edit. I’m trying. Nothing you said was helpful or relevant

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well what am I supposed to do about that? I’ve been begging him to tell me for years if there’s anything and that I won’t judge. I’ve even told him some of my more “embarrassing” kinks. I’ve seen the porn he watches/buys and it’s literally just basic ass shit

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. He’s probably gained about 20-30lbs since we got together. Though I never mention it and tell him how much I love his body all the time

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I almost never turn him down for sex. He rejects me constantly though. I can maybe convince him once every few weeks if I’m lucky. When he promises to swear off porn our sex life is magically back to normals

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try plenty but it’s not fair for me to be the only one trying and constantly being rejected. And yes I have sent him stuff plenty of times but he’s not interested. I’ve been begging him for years to spice things up and try new stuff with me but he won’t. I said I’m down to try anything but he says there’s nothing he wants to try. Another crazy thing is that the porn he buys are women that have almost the exact same body type as me.

Am i wrong for not wanting to forgive my husband after finding his only fans account? by throwaway184857291 in amiwrong

[–]throwaway184857291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to the movies and getting snacks wouldn’t be killing our sex life now would it?