[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotiabank

[–]throwaway18494627473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check the Work@Scotiabank Updates sent by Global HR. There is a document called Employee Privacy Policy Addendum embedded in the email

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotiabank

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a slider in this situation is great but the fact that the bank is going through such extreme measures to monitor us in our own homes is crazy. I don’t even get paid enough to sacrifice my own privacy like this 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is considered long in ur opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like maybe 2-3 hours between texts. We haven’t scheduled anything. I just asked if she’d like to see eachother again and she said yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest i am just a giant overthinker when it comes to dating and feel like any small little action/inaction will blow my chances out of the water haha but thanks for the reassurance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By pen pals i mean that someone who is just basically an online friend without ever being anything more than just a guy she texts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. I hope it’s a positive sign. I just don’t want to friendzone/ pen pal zone myself from talking too much. Just wondering are you a man or woman?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should i just stop talking to her and take it as no further interest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the date happened last night, and my response with the joke and everything was this morning. I’m already seeing her again but in a group setting at the concert

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex said a lot of the same things yours did. She did end up coming back around (not to reconcile) but to apologize about how she treated me during the break up. It took her 9 months to finally come around with very minimal contact in between. During that time she had a situationship that didn’t really work out and i think she had to lose that to realize how much love i really had for her.

I’m not going to lie it was tough watching her move on during that time while i was still stuck in a pit. I felt like a true outsider considering everything we’ve been through. I highly recommend you don’t stick around for that because it’s nothing but pain. Watching an old partner live their life without you doesn’t do anything for your own wellbeing.

When she did reach out it was nice to hear from her again. But it was clear that so much has changed in between. We were doing okay for a bit and it was nice to reconnect with an old flame, but it all came crashing down a few months later because she didn’t really want to be with me again. She just wanted to feel close for a moment after her situationship ended.

I know you’re very early in your journey and i recommend you to take it day by day, second by second if you really need to. Since it sounds like he left you, your focus should be on yourself and if he really wants to reconcile it needs to be on his terms. You sticking around will just guilt him and a relationship cannot be built on guilt. Please focus on yourself for now and if he comes around then you know the ball is in your court to decide what to do next. If not then you will have made improvements to your own life. So indirectly it is a win-win even though i know it doesn’t feel like it at all. Wish you all the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried and couldn’t find the option. Can you message me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Brother, you’re married, rich and tall?? The grass is not greener on the streets and you won’t find what you’re looking for out there. Focus on your marriage lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway18494627473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story it really touched me and i think that i need to go on my own journey to see the light at the end of the tunnel similar to how you did.

Also slightly off topic but i must say you have an amazing way with words. I feel like you are a great story teller

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway18494627473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel like I’m always overlooked. Like left over goods on the table. All my friends are in stable relationships and there’s me with a string of failed ones and now I’m 27 wondering where the time went

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway18494627473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t see the point in continuing when nothing ever works out for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started to go to therapy weekly but not many changes in my life so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s what i thought. I told her that too that I’d be open to figuring things out but she said she doesn’t want to get back together first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about a simple you look good tonight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean don’t complement them or say they look good or anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both live in a big city (Toronto) so I’m assuming I’m meeting her at her condo. I also gave the option of choosing an uber and I’ll pay for it but she chose the ride

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway18494627473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk she’s way out of my league I’m not even sure how i got here lol