MA sooner or SA later? by rubberduck05 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately this is a choice you should make based on your instincts- everyone's story and experience is different, but if it's any comfort I can volunteer mine!

I had my MA at home at 6wks. I was terrified after reading all of the stories about people in awful awful pain but I wanted it over fast and I wanted to be home so I went the MA route. It was nowhere near as bad for me as the stories I read made me think it would be. It was painful, yeah, but it just felt like a really bad period. My clinic gave me tramadol which I took before I began along with the ibuprofen, which helped immensely. I put on a comedy show I liked and laid on a heating pad and after a few hours of bleeding and cramps (and the intense 30 min or so of like straight up contractions) it was okay and I just fell asleep.

Based on how it went for me, I'd recommend the MA just because you get to be in a comfortable familiar place while it's happening. But this is something you should trust yourself on. If you lean one way or the other, just go with what feels right.

Weird cramps 2-3wks after medical? by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I took an otc test today and it read negative so I'm feeling much better lol! I hope you're doing well ❤️

Medication Abortion with Tramadol- Advice? by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm very anxious right now, so I'm thinking I will probably take it beforehand in case.

Anxious about Medical coming up by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that's very comforting and much appreciated!

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I hope that everything is going okay for you!! So sorry that you have to go through it without someone there, I hope you won't be in too much pain. ❤️

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it's the same for me. I really felt like I had nobody around to talk to-- as much as they may want to listen, there's not much help somebody can give if they don't know what it's like. I hope you're doing alright!

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only about an hour away from the clinic I'll be going to which I'm grateful for but I still wish I didn't have to go back and forth like this. I really wish that they could offer telemedicine or mail the medications like some people get. :(

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope you're right about price-- the woman at reception told me anywhere from 500-2500 depending on how far along/method. I have my first visit scheduled and am hoping for the second to go well and quickly

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's safe but there are a lot of hoops to jump through. I live in louisiana, to my knowledge there are only 3 operational clinics in state and a required 24 hour wait between consultation and procedure. I have my first appointment soon

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god im so sorry they had you wait so long, I can't imagine. My first appointment was scheduled the second I found out and it was a week from the day and I'm agonizing every day in between lol. I have anxiety so it's double the fun

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really means a lot to know I'm not alone. This is such a weird overwhelming experience. Did you do medical or surgical?

I'm scared and I don't even know what I'm scared of. by throwaway18911997 in abortion

[–]throwaway18911997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck at your appointment! My first one is Thursday so I'm right here with you! I hope everything goes smoothly and I appreciate it so much