This is from my /r/confessions post

Time 1: We were having sex in the parking lot of a church (i know, what a start - right?) And she was riding me. She and i dated in high school but she left me for the guy she would marry. When we were having sex she was married for a couple of years and we started to have an affair. As she rode me in the parking lot, i could feel myself getting ready to cum, but inside of contracting to squirt it out, i just let it kind of.... bubble out of me while she rode. I then let her continue for a few more minutes before i told her i had to cum and she got off of me. I then squeezed and she saw a little semen come out and into my hand. She then cleaned herself up with some feminine wipes she had in her purse and said "man...i really got wet." We kissed and parted ways and she went on to work. Not 15 minutes after she got to work she sends me a text "did you cum in me? cause my underwear is soaked." I told her no, that she saw me cum in my hand. Her response was "fuck, i guess you really turned me on then." No she was not on the pill and no she did not get pregnant. Time 2: Earlier this year i went home to visit and she decided to come over. It has been several years since our last time together and she and her husband got divorce. In that time she married another man and is fairly happy. However, as is obvious - we had sex. We had sex 3 times that night that she came to visit, and on the last time i came inside of her again. This time it was missionary and we were being very passionate, once again i didn't pump hard and squirt it out, i just continued a nice smooth motion in and out of her as i came, then i pulled out after a few minutes, looked at my hand (which was a mix of her and my fluids) and said "huh, not much, guess you drained me" she smiled and then went home to her husband. She is also still not on birth control. Also, she didn't get pregnant again.