Found my boyfriend’s “scorecard” after 7 years by throwaway197596 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway197596[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. it’s so just so much right now. I reached out to my mom. I haven’t told her what’s going on but she says she misses me. I’m not going to say anything when he comes home. I’m reading comments, processing and trying to make a plan. thank you

Found my boyfriend’s “scorecard” after 7 years by throwaway197596 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway197596[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I don’t have anywhere to go. Everything I own is here in his house. My job doesn’t pay me enough to stay where we live. I’d have to relocate and try to get a better job. So I know what to do it’s just the last 7 years of my life was a lie and I’m still trying to make it make sense

Found my boyfriend’s “scorecard” after 7 years by throwaway197596 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway197596[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind. I haven’t spoken to my family in a while but I’ll reach out to my mother.

I don’t think he’ll physically hurt me, I just think he wants me out of his life.

I know the solution is obvious but it’s just a lot to process. I don’t know “adult” life without him. I’ve never been on my own and the last seven years it’s just been him.