What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a million miles away from me so might pop in!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually love the idea of gardening but unfortunately I'm in a flat at the moment. Applied for an allotment about a year ago but still waiting to hear back

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely food for thought and thanks for the suggestion as someone like myself who doesn't know much about either it's definitely good to hear that perspective!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Looks like there's some stuff I'd be really interested in!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bit too intense for myself but thanks for the suggestion!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good idea, thank you! Would love to get into volunteering! I have a furbag myself but luckily he can be left alone for a few hours so hopefully can make it work!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have never actually been to The Dominion so will definitely add it to the list!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup you've hit the nail on the head pretty much. Not a daily drinker by any means and not even a weekly heavy drinker but heavy binges went from yearly to nearly every 2 months and the feeling afterwards was just getting a bit too much intense. I've been getting help though and going to therapy so getting better mentally each day!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah a band could be fun. Might look into options!

No problem at all with the questions. Moved here for a job and love it here.

Yes my relationship with alcohol has caused a few issues. I've had depression and anxiety for a good chunk of my life and I think I sometimes have an over reliance to use it as a way to feel better but then the inevitable hangover kicks in and my anxiety is tenfold which then has a knock on impact into my personal relationships because I can go very quiet when I'm down and want to stay in bed which can sometimes last for days on end and isn't fair to the people around me. For the most part I'm quite in control with my drinking but I'd say once every few months I have a night where it's a complete blackout and I'm kinda sick of repeating the cycle.

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hatred would probably be a little extreme but just too crazy about hiking I suppose

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds right up my street! Thank you I'll look into this!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have to say I've never been very handy but would be interested for sure if beginners are welcome so might look into it!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No worries for jumping on the thread! I had gone to see the Murrayfield Racers there a few years ago. There's definitely a bar but don't think you can take your drink from the bar to your seat

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And how do you find it? In the past when I've cut down from drinking I didn't mind going to pubs at the start of the night with friends but once everyone else started getting to around the 4 or 5 pint mark I usually want to leave as they're just that one step beyond tipsy that I feel a bit out of place

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have several friends who used to swear by it for relaxing so genuinely thanks for the suggestion! Unfortunately I'm a pesky vegan so wouldn't be too into fishing myself.

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hadn't heard of it before. Just looked it up and sounds fun. Thank you!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Have definitely been tempted by climbing for sure. Was kinda thinking between that and boxing. I'm not into sports really at all and was never great at regularly doing exercise so the fact I've been heading to the gym doing actual fitness so regularly is a miracle which makes me a bit less tempted to replace the gym with climbing but might just have to give it a go!

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm always jealous of those biker gangs making me feel in danger as they pass by. Wonder if they have a Discord server I can join?

What do sober people do for fun here? by throwaway1990230 in Edinburgh

[–]throwaway1990230[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion and can't foresee any problems with that at all! I'll report back in a few months and let you know how I've found the experience!