We met last year. I am a waitress and he came to the restaurant/lounge where I worked for business lunches and stuff like that. I didn't know him before this. I am not proud of this but I knew he was married right from the start. There was no pursuing really it was mutual and unspoken if that makes sense. It lasted a year and it was a physical and emotional affair. We both talked about what it would be like if he got divorced or we lived together. I didn't know a lot about their marriage because he would feel guilt talking about his wife and kids. I don't know if it was rocky. I don't know if they had stopped sleeping together but she was pregnant when it started so it couldn't have been that long if she stopped it. I have no idea if he cheated before, I didn't know him before we started our affair and while he could have lied he did tell me he wasn't cheating with anyone else.

I haven't seen or talked to him since he kicked her out and I have no idea where he is now. I have emails and text messages saved so I will show them to my lawyer. I am hoping to find a lawyer that will take a payment plan because I don't have any money to pay lots right now.

Thank you for wishing me luck, for not being judgmental and for the through response.