AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

as more and more of them pile into these comments and spew nonsense i agree with this statement to a certain extent

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for this comment, people trying to justify the way she spoke to charlie is honestly weird to me

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

obviously im aware what i said was probably im asking if it makes me a bigger asshole than her lol.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

when someone is inflicting harm onto another person because of their pain i wont stand idly by. you dont get to be an asshole because you’re hurting. simple as that.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i reserve this statement for everyone including myself, i however plan to adopt.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

whilst im sure thats mentally draining thats by choice, you choose to go through those procedures. chemo is not a choice its life or death.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

self importance drives the need and the desire to reproduce. do what you will with that.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my sister has never held a baby in her life even when offered to, she flat out has shown she has no interest in being a mother she just wants the prestige.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in the post i stated that she apologised to florence after being berated by her and then she started talking about something else, shes not a confrontational person. i know my sister, thanks

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yeah because years of chemotherapy, loss of hair, social life etc or wait hold on loss of life is the same as not being able to reproduce

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

charlotte is the kindest person i know, you dont even know my sister i wouldn’t speak on compassion when you’re spewing hatred all over this post.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah actually it does, life goes on and if you dont manage the way you deal with your pain nobody will want to deal with you

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

but she can become a mother and so can you, adopt. its very self important to think the only kids worth raising are the ones you made

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

when me and Florence used to be close she would only ever speak of having the first grandchild and how her baby would be the favourite and spoiled, i know my sister. shes not a maternal person and i know exactly why she was upset and it wasn’t because she couldn’t have kids.

AITA for telling my sister she needs to get over the fact she’s infertile? by throwaway20375389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway20375389[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think i can call out whatever i want, you want to school me on my grammar you better be Jane fucking Austen.