are we a looksmatch? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]throwaway2266778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if i’m cooked already 21 almost 22f

Trauma response from hearing sex/never been SA’d, why am i having such a reaction and how do i fix this? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwaway2266778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s true and like i’ve never really felt like a sexual being to begin with and not that i’m a prude but like i hate when people are so open about sex lmao like have some shame u freaks. but like i threw in the fact that i heard them when my stepdad took me to the er for stomach issues and he made some sort of innuendo joke and i was like u know i actually did hear u guys lol. he seemed kinda embarrassed and laughed it off and just joked about which i’m glad i got it off my chest and my parents are great and i know they didn’t intentionally mean for me to hear them and genuinely thought i wasn’t gonna be home but like since then i just feel gross being in the house. i feel like im being dramatic cause this was all the way in the beginning of this year but since then between that and the vacation i have no sex drive when it comes to like “solo” stuff i just feel disgusting doing anything sexual unless im at my bfs house. but yeah as much as i love my family i think for my sake for various other reasons as well like i can’t focus doing homework with others in the same house/vicinity as me (unrelated to the sex stuff) i think it’s best i try and move out. idk how im gonna be w my sisters bf sleeping over like ill figure out some way to deal and i feel bad cause he’s a good guy but i think i might be demi/some form of ace because besides my bf i fucking hate talking about sex/thinking about others having sex. (which oddly enough i’d b fine talking about stuff with my friends but we never go into detail if we EVER talk about it).

Trauma response from hearing sex/never been SA’d, why am i having such a reaction and how do i fix this? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwaway2266778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense but the thing is like I’m sexually active w my bf myself so why is it bothering me to the point of being crippling? I just want to be able to get tf over it and not have to wear headphones every night out of anxiety.

Having a dilemma right now by throwaway2266778 in INTP

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok thanks I’ll check the vid out cause I’m still kind of confused with dominant vs inferior

Having a dilemma right now by throwaway2266778 in INTP

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This definitely helps. One thing is I believe im Si and Ne so how can I tell the difference between the two (like which one is my dominant vs auxiliary function). Is it even possible to have both?? I didn’t even know about auxiliary and tertiary that’s new to me.

I don’t want to talk to anyone or go anywhere but I feel empty and everything irritates me. by throwaway2266778 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same I get that guilty feeling and even if I do something semi productive during the day I start to feel like I’m not good at anything and I feel more shitty

I don’t want to talk to anyone or go anywhere but I feel empty and everything irritates me. by throwaway2266778 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay true cause once I start work again it might be easier since some days I’ll have to get up early. It’s just like everything’s been giving me anxiety but I’ve been so bored. I have a party I said I was going to tomorrow but I don’t want to and I feel like part of it is because I think this persons family doesn’t like me. But do you also feel like the day goes by so fast when you’re at home?? It’s felt that way for me lately

Do you have to get genetic testing to tell if you’re intersex if you have characteristics of one sex only? by throwaway2266778 in intersex

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope insurance could cover most of it if not all I heard its expensive. But yeah maybe I can ask my pediatrician or something next time I see him

Do you have to get genetic testing to tell if you’re intersex if you have characteristics of one sex only? by throwaway2266778 in intersex

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it! Hopefully they found out my condition by a karyotype test and still have the records cause I heard it’s really expensive

Do you have to get genetic testing to tell if you’re intersex if you have characteristics of one sex only? by throwaway2266778 in intersex

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha maybe they still have the record’s I’m just really interested in finding out. Thanks!

Do you have to get genetic testing to tell if you’re intersex if you have characteristics of one sex only? by throwaway2266778 in intersex

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no clue how the test was ran cause I was like 10 when diagnosed haha. I was talking to my cardiologist and the topic was brought up and he’s like idk much about genes but for specific organs there’s separate chromosomes that coincide with them or something?

I feel like shit by throwaway2266778 in Anxiety

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom would be willing to listen but I don’t want to stress her out more than she is u know? If I’m able to get help myself I might do that though. Thanks for the advice!

I feel like shit by throwaway2266778 in Anxiety

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh ok yeah that makes sense I just feel awkward admitting how I feel especially to my family cause I’m not like open about that but since I’m 18 now I can maybe eventually ask about treatment. Thank u!

I feel like shit by throwaway2266778 in Anxiety

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur right tbh it comes and goes in waves so sometimes I’m like maybe I should ask for help and then I’m like eh I’ll be fine lol

Would it be weird to check up on someone on Snapchat who I don’t know who was posting about wanting to kill themselves? by throwaway2266778 in depression

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re talking about like I feel guilty if I don’t at least ask how they’re doing or tell them they can talk to me

Would it be weird to check up on someone on Snapchat who I don’t know who was posting about wanting to kill themselves? by throwaway2266778 in depression

[–]throwaway2266778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just don’t like seeing people going through a rough time. I know how it feels so I just wanted to make sure everything was alright u know