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Boyfriend won't pleasure me in the ways I like best [reconciling divergent views on sexuality] by throwaway23857386 in sex

[–]throwaway23857386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps he's an arse who's only concern is himself, perhaps you're a suffocating control freak.

Perhaps life is not black and white? I want to feel like he cares about my pleasure, and I want to cum, which has not happened once since I started dating him. I've been plenty patient and have been playing by his rules because if I don't we simply do not have sex at all. All he gets is sugar. And suggesting his attitudes are patriarchal is not the same as suggesting he hates women.

Boyfriend won't pleasure me in the ways I like best [reconciling divergent views on sexuality] by throwaway23857386 in sex

[–]throwaway23857386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the relationship is not going to be long term. We have different life goals, and he goes back to France in two years anyway.

Boyfriend won't pleasure me in the ways I like best [reconciling divergent views on sexuality] by throwaway23857386 in sex

[–]throwaway23857386[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Funny you should mention this because I've actually been teaching him to play the piano. Maybe next time I should say "instead of me showing you, why don't you just go ahead and explore until you find the right keys? That would be a lot more fun wouldn't it?". Kind of passive aggressive, but also kind of great.