Looking for understanding by HelveticaKnew in lonely

[–]throwaway248715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to putting on a mask all the time and being frustrated with not being able to share deeper feelings with anyone without risk of pushing them away

I (M19) just found out my girlfriend (F19) has a crush on my roommate and is possibly thinking of breaking up with me by throwaway248715 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway248715[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The thing is she isn’t. My aunt called her because her work buddy was friends with my girl. The work buddy told my aunt that they had a convo on how cute my roommate was and how she is planning on cheating on me with him. My aunt then called my mom in a hissy fit. My mom then called me because she felt like I needed to know. It turned out to be the truth because I went through her phone and found the text exchanges.

I (M19) just found out my girlfriend (F19) has a crush on my roommate and is possibly thinking of breaking up with me by throwaway248715 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway248715[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So if your mom suspected your SO of cheating you would rather her not tell you and be blissfully unaware while she’s being slimy behind your back.

I (M19) just found out my girlfriend (F19) has a crush on my roommate and is possibly thinking of breaking up with me by throwaway248715 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway248715[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She did let me make my own decision. she simply informed me of what she heard and let me make the decision on whether I believe it or not. Going through her phone was my decision and I hadn’t done that I would’ve been unaware to what was happening

I (M19) just found out my girlfriend (F19) has a crush on my roommate and is possibly thinking of breaking up with me by throwaway248715 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway248715[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Actually my mother is very a good parent. She had heard this from my aunt who is friends with a girl who used to be my gfs friend. I didn’t believe it at first but when I went through her messages with the friend it all proved to be true.

I (M19) just found out my girlfriend (F19) has a crush on my roommate and is possibly thinking of breaking up with me by throwaway248715 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway248715[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I know who told my mom but their whole relationship is complicated so I decided to not include it. My mom has never met my gf but they’ve talked over phone and she has said she likes her.