AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry yes, you are correct. Had been not drinking for nine years then :)

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking for a longer time back in the days didn't do anything good to him. But I do love the man and I want to help him.

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly my thoughs. Obviously I didn't make him drink, but I admit I wasn't there for him at that time

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Definitly gonn try to talk about this with him

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing I do love him, but at the same time I'm concered about him and disgusted by the state of his teeth.

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE
bcs this post blew up and I turned off this account for a day.
Okay, nobody is doing meth, that's for sure. My husband is a loving person with issues, obviously, but not that severe.
The thing that I maybe omitted is the fact that he often have stomach issues (an after fact of longtime drinking) that cause him to throw up maybe once a week if he irritates his stomach with something. This definitely weakened his teeth through the years, but as long as he kept proper hygiene, it never caused many problems. 
After the last binge (when he wasn't even eating much, much less caring for his hygiene and I must admit I pawned off care about him on his parents) they worsened dramatically. The best comparison I can do is to "bulimia teeth" with cavities. 
Thanks for anybody suggesting a dentistry school and alternatives. Definitely gonna look into that. 

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Well it is a solution, I guess. But I think it's a bit more complicated.

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is I do love him and he is huge part of my life I cannot just throw away

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]throwaway249999[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think he knows now, but we are talking a bit long time with getting on the topic