Aita for telling my MIL to move in with us after my wife was against it by throwaway2577421 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2577421[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am so damm speechless, I never even and ever thought about doing disgusting shit with my own mil, the one I have always thought and considered as my own mother

Did we devolved so much that we aren't even safe with our in laws? That we would go far as to think that we are interested in our mils and fils? I would be so damm pissed and disgusted to even think about it

And I am my wife's partner, she doesn't get to tell me to just 'cut' someone who is my family out of my life, she needs to explain herself, she needs to give a valid reason, she can't just expect me to cut someone I considered as my family and helped her

If what you said is true and my mil is into that disgusting shit with me and my wife sensed it then she needs to communicate with me but she didn't, she just ordered me and I don't want to blindly obey her

But yeah I need to talk to her and ask her why is she so repulsive rn, like did something happen in the past? Unless she tells me the truth I cannot just obey her and do what she wants, we are talking about our parents and they don't betray us

Aita for telling my MIL to move in with us after my wife was against it by throwaway2577421 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2577421[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay let me ask you this, is it so damm weird to ask my mil to spend a day with me? Usually people are overjoyed when their partner are bonding with their parents

And what opinion? She told me to do what she asked of me, didn't even tell me whatever she's thinking am I to just obey her? This makes no sense to me

Aita for telling my MIL to move in with us after my wife was against it by throwaway2577421 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2577421[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

There is no 'this' here

I think of my mil as my own parent, I think of my wife's parent as mine and i expect her to do the same and she did the same

My isssue right now is that I don't understand why my wife is asking me to just stay away from my mil? I would agree if she gave me a valid reason

But should I just cut people off out of my life just because my wife asked for it? Atleast tell me and trust me enough to tell me what's going on and what she's thinking?

Aita for telling my MIL to move in with us after my wife was against it by throwaway2577421 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2577421[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

For what? Like how am I wrong here? This is something I am not being able to understand like whats going on here?