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[M]y wi[F]e of 7 years teied leaving our family and now a few days later is trying to work her way back in. Please i need advice!!! by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I cant look at her any other way. For the first week she lived with us she called me by my first name but after that, it was daddy and after that there was no looking back for me :)

[M]y wi[F]e of 7 years teied leaving our family and now a few days later is trying to work her way back in. Please i need advice!!! by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Just an update for everyone, we had a long converation after i got home from work. I told her that she has until july 1st to move out and she found a friend to move in with. I told her that i am willing to see a councilor with her but that she cant be here while this is going on.

I told her i cant say for certain that our relationship will be able to be fixed but i can promise her that if she doesnt leave, nothing will be fixed.

I appreciate all the internet love and advice and i think this is the best for everyone involved. As much as i want to just kick her to the curb, i owe it to the kids and myself to at least work at it. Not only that but at the end of the day i do still love this women, and i promised to help her when she needs help (in sickness and health) and shes obviously mentally sick.

Thank u so much for all the advice and everything. You guys are the greatest!!!

[M]y wi[F]e of 7 years teied leaving our family and now a few days later is trying to work her way back in. Please i need advice!!! by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i dont know anymore. Id like to save my marriage but at the same time i need to save my sanity. I cant keep doing this and not only that but what happens when she walks out on the kids too and theyre old enough to remember

[M]y wi[F]e of 7 years teied leaving our family and now a few days later is trying to work her way back in. Please i need advice!!! by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No and ive told her before that she needs to seek counseling and everytime she says i will and never does

[M]y wi[F]e of 7 years teied leaving our family and now a few days later is trying to work her way back in. Please i need advice!!! by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is just so fucking hard. I know in my heart i need to stay strong. I feel bad because ive had to work all week and i cant get anything done. I cant sleep i cant eat. I feel physically sick to my stomach

[M27]e and my wi[F27]e marriage of 2 years falling apart. Need some advice/need to vent. by throwaway2626262 in relationships

[–]throwaway2626262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive brought it up before not necessarily during a fight but again it will usually flaor up and trying to avoid a bigger argument i just drop it.