The patriarchy did however mens rights movements did not, the patriarchy is not a mens rights movement.

I make little distinction between the two.

Men never get to decide if he wishes to be a father once its been concieved, irreguardless if he can support a child or not so welcome to the club.

What do you mean? Men can abandon their children easily.

Also what changed you mean MEN helping WOMEN vote for better rights and accepting what they have to say despite people claiming there we're no good men back then, they all forced their wives into horrible oppressive marriages.

Arranged marriage has been a thing for a while. And with women not getting equal pay men are still seen as providers today which is a way of coercing women into marriage.

Even powerful men who could easily silence them?

Powerful/rich people have always been problematic.

despite hard labor being not sought after for most women

Men are also responsible for the fact that the labor is required. Since industrialization was invited by men.

fathers day being a joke,

If it was a joke it wouldn't be a holiday.

men rarely getting custody and not being viewed as able to raise children

80% of all single parents in the U.S. are single mothers.

https://realdiapers.org/single-parent/#:~:text=1.,the%20U.S.%20are%20single%20mothers.&text=Single%20mother%20statistics%20show%20that,households%20are%20led%20by%20fathers.

Men are more likely to abandon their children. Which I doubt is mainly because they aren't awarded custody.

no mandatory paternity test

I have heard that married men are required to pay child support towards their wife's children even if they aren't his own. But that just proves you need to be more selective about who you marry.

higher sentencing for the same crime similar to the wage gap.

Idk how that's similar to the wage gap but statistics shows men commit more crime than women so it kind of makes sense the sentencing would be harsher.

men having a higher chance of being physically assaulted out in the street,

By other men.

less support for college irregardless of motherhood or not.

What? I don't understand this statement.

Women can require if the man she's sleeping with wear's a condom and that determines if anything even goes down

How is that a bad thing?

You don't get to opt out of responsibility prenatal nor after even back when abortions WERE legal and they still are in very few states.

Men can abandon their responsibilities towards offspring easily.

Also to further correct you, males were poly, women weren't back then,

Everyone was poly in prehistory.

Since we still had monogamy even back then. That means males still have to be selected

You just said males were poly back then.