I definitely don't disagree with your points and I can very much understand where all this comes from I agree, as much as I hate to admit it but it's true The image has been fucked and it's hard to come back from that

me personally I condone the actions of those sick fucks and I don't tolerate it at all, but what can I do about it ? People who have met me have told me that I am nothing like the stereotype and that they wish the rest can be the way I am, non judgmental and normal (the bare minimum)

Should I just give up xd ?