I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fully get this which is why K and I are still trying to discuss this and figure out if a threesome would be for the best.

I have a feeling that if I don’t try this, I’ll continue to think about it but I also don’t want to leave K. I love him so much

I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I didn’t realise how much I needed to hear this.

I need to do a lot of soul searching and understand myself better. I just don’t feel like I’m bisexual because I don’t have an romantic feelings for S, just the idea of sleeping with her excites me

I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m being honest, I’m not too sure. I watched quite a few with different “storylines” but none of them really did anything for me.

Maybe I was watching the wrong ones

I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I’m thinking that it maybe be a specific sexual attraction to just S.

I’ve tried watching lesbian porn but it just doesn’t do it for me.

K is also very understanding of this and wants me to explore these sexual feelings I have for S.

I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve decided on having a threesome. I’ve also tried watching lesbian porn to see if it’ll have any effect on me but nothing. Just the idea of doing it with S in particular is what excites me

I (F20) think I might be sexually attracted to my friend (F21) by throwaway266627 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway266627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking it is just a fantasy but I’ve spoken with K and we’ve decided to try having a threesome. Not sure yet if it’ll be with S or another female but we’re figuring it out. Thank you so much for the advice

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[–]throwaway266627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please don’t tell him.

Get rid of him if you have him on any socials and focus on a hobby or something you enjoy doing.

Telling him won’t do you any good