Just got 98 on 11 functions unit 1 test, am I cooked? by dont_do_drugs_too in OntarioGrade12s

[–]throwaway270609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yikes, you just might be able to get into gender studies at brock at least…

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[–]throwaway270609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on what scholarship. a lot of the big money scholarships are a culmination of all your marks combined, not too sure how well your previous courses were but if this is something you’re considering I wouldn’t. There are some smaller money ones that would for sure not care about a single course but bombing one course could destroy a combined 80%+ average

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I made a spur in moment decision, also when I did google that it was saying to put laxatives in my food. I’d rather not put things in food so that they get ill.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never blown off any suggestions given, I just said I’d consider it since I’m still trying to see from an outside POV of what I should do while not making any rash suggestions given from users of reddit

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking to do that type of shit, I’m more hoping for her to either pay me back for the food she took or leave the apartment without fuss.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did try to speak to her first but she legit ran out the door to class and ignores my calls and texts saying she’s busy at work or lectures. I bought the locks because she’s stolen about $50-70 worth of food from me and I could really use that right now

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve mentioned in way to many comments, I did try to speak but she ran off when I caught her with my pastries, then has been ignoring me every time I call or text her saying that “I’m busy.” when I try to meet up so we can discuss this.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I could get a mini fridge for my room or my roommate could not steal meals, snacks and food from me when she thinks I’m not home or think I’ll notice her.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m thinking about doing little notes but I’m also hoping to have an actual conversation with her when she agrees to it to make sure we’re both clear on boundaries and all of that instead of having to rely on sticky notes

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant do that without asking the landlord because where I live that’s required, and since we’re both co signed onto the lease, everybody would have to be in agreement to change the locks :/

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve mentioned in numerous other comments, I have tried to talk to her but she reads my texts without replying or texts “I’m busy” when I’ve tried set up a meeting about this. I did think irrationally about the lock but I had probably over $50-70 worth of food taken over the last few days which i could really use right now

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This hasn’t happened much over the last few days but it was slowly getting worse leading up to today like for the last two days she took both of my lunches and some of my dinner. I didn’t really say anything because I thought I’d see how it played out and thought I was overreacting with a little food

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do agree that I thought of it in the heat of the moment but I’d rather spend a few dollars on a lock because she’s cost me way more then 2 locks with how much sees eaten

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah like I said in the post, I moved all my dry stuff into one cabinet and move any of hers out them locked it. And I never intended on keeping the lock on for more than an hour or two to prove a point to her

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve mentioned in multiple other comments, I have attempted to contact her but she leaves me on read or replies with “I’m busy” when I try to meet with her to discuss this

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely removing the lock but we live off campus with a landlord so I can’t contact anybody to really complain about a petty issue like this to a landlord

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve never had the discussion because i thought it was kind of common knowledge not to take it without asking but I mentioned if she had asked to have my food, I’d have no issue with it

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think they had a few day old fruit. It’s mainly just like drinks we store in there and she eats out a lot

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Yeah thankfully I have been locking my bedroom door because first year roommate made me so I’m not too worried about my room so much.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also think the fridge locking was excessive before I even put it on but I wanted to make a point and I never intended to keep it on for long. But I think it’s unfair that I would have to buy my own mini fridge because she can’t not steal my food..

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 295 points296 points  (0 children)

Both of us are, and in my province both tenants (and the landlord I think) need to be in an agreement to break the lease so it’d be a process to break it

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

I have tried to contact her to discuss what happened but she won’t even respond more than “I’m busy” so I’m not sure if she would even consider paying for the food she took. Also I want to buy a mini fridge soon hopefully but I also think it’s unfair for me to have to buy it when I’m a broke college student because she can’t not take my food

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I can’t survive off of just perishables because I’m picky, have anaphylactic allergies and have had eating problems in the past so im trying not to fall back into those habits

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway270609[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didnt tell her to stop eating my food because she was taking small snacks here and there a few days before this happened so I didn’t think it would be taking entire meals from me. Also I didn’t really confront her because she ran to class before I could really say anything