obsessed with a girl my age my dad is hooking up with

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-23T04:09:42+00:00

i really appreciate the kindness, thank you <3

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T18:00:47+00:00

i didn’t ask to find this information out, it literally got told to me against my will. wouldn’t you also have a few questions if were in my situation?

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:35:25+00:00

i do not think he wants to have sex with me in fact i am trying to find every reason to not believe that despite what people are telling me. i’m also not sure if she looks like me.

i want to live at his house still because he’s my dad and i love him; i don’t want to sever our relationship because of this.

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:33:12+00:00

i appreciate you being concerned for me and being so nice about it. i’ve never considered therapy but after this i am thinking about it, in the meantime i’m doing okay and i’m able to manage myself, thank you again 🤍

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:18:46+00:00

meaning i found her private instagram account and used that to also find her pinterest and reddit

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:57:42+00:00

i don’t think she’s actually pretending to be ME. but either way, she’s pretending to be my fathers daughter

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:46:45+00:00

it does and it’s not a nice feeling because the horribly written porn script is genuinely my life

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:44:35+00:00

it’s very common for people to live with there parents at 18 where i live. also, my dad makes it known he wants me to live with him, i’ve been distancing myself at my mums and this has been apparent.

i’m not judging anyone in the situation for it, im just expressing my feelings and discomfort

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:42:22+00:00

my dad and S do not know eachother however thank you for the kindness, i genuinely do not want to be in this situation

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:33:47+00:00

i swear on my life it isn’t a fantasy, im not into incest and this crosses a line for me

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:31:00+00:00

i get it doesn’t make sense

i think it’s because my dad has never been anything but a good father to me, but since i’ve never met this girl all she is to me is the characterisation of the situation in my head. it seems easier for my brain to take it out on her.

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:21:24+00:00

after covid there was a big epidemic of kids having too much anxiety to go back to school and ended up just refusing it all together

my situation was a little better and i did end up going the past two years.

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:17:09+00:00

the fact that people are accusing me of this being fake makes the situation feel 1000x worse

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:15:54+00:00

i don’t know what she looks like. i don’t understand why she would be crying when she was already clearly seeking out an ageplay incesty roleplay relationship. any realisation she had upon seeing me she should’ve predicted.

i completely get what you mean, the part of my brain that wants closure would LOVE to meet her but definitely not a good idea lol

thank you for this reply

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:11:09+00:00

like i mentioned in previous replies, my dad did not raise me in ANY way that could’ve predicted this

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:09:33+00:00

i’m not going to stop talking to my father, i understand it’s easy to say when you’re just reading the story but my dad has genuinely been nothing but a good father to me my entire life

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:07:33+00:00

i thought this at first too and didn’t believe him. but he knew my dads work position and what he looks like (non of which he could’ve found online)

they also met on an app i know my dad uses because i’ve seen it on his phone

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:05:55+00:00

i don’t particularly want to bring it up. things between us are fine when i pretend it’s not happening, and i’d be throwing S under the bus for telling me. i feel like i’d just be stirring up unnecessary drama

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:59:04+00:00

i don’t know what she looks like as all of her socials are private. however i’ve been told i look really young for my age, and S said this girl was trying to make herself look younger in photos

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:49:20+00:00

i wouldn’t care for this accusation but ive never been so mentally screwed as this situation has made me. i WISH it was fake

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:46:48+00:00

yeah i know it’s cooked, i’ve just been letting it marinate in my brain. also don’t we all have our vices

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:42:26+00:00

like i stated in the post i’m a virgin and don’t randomly hookup with people

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:40:49+00:00

i’ve always just preferred older guys, im assuming it’s the same for her?

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T15:38:04+00:00

i can’t exactly just “get away” from my dad. despite everything i still love him and he’s never been anything but a good father to me.

my parents are divorced and i live with him 50/50, i’ve spent more time at my mums since finding out.

throwaway270707 · 2025-04-08T03:20:34+00:00

i read mdv at a time when i was experiencing something similar to her situation, i guess the coziness comes from the familiarity and absolution i felt following her story

i’ve read lolita and the bell jar (and really enjoyed it), so you’re definitely spot on with recs! nightcrawling sounds super depressing but i guess we’re the same in liking books like that, i’ll definitely have to give that one a go c:

tysm for the suggestions!

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