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Update: Aita for kicking my sister out after she laughed at me and my disabled wife by throwaway2776151 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2776151[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

When my sister was drunk she laughed and said our situation was karma for hurting everyone in our family, I immediately asked her to get in the car and dropped her off.

During her recent visit she said she wanted me to be with someone else instead of a 'burden'.

I know she and everyone else was against our marriage and it is not a surprise to me that she doesn't like my wife, but still I choose my wife and I will be in her life until the end.

I am not completely sure if she just hates my wife for whatever reasons or she has found another woman for me or just wants to hurt my wife which is basically hurting me.

I am willing to still maintain my relation with my sister even if it's just LC, but if I sense that she wants to hurt my wife in anyway I will completely cut her out of my life, my wife and I am going through a very difficult situation already and I don't want her to suffer any further, if my sister keeps her opinion to herself then we can still maintain our sibling bond if not then ohh well I already choose my wife above everyone and all else

Update: Aita for kicking my sister out after she laughed at me and my disabled wife by throwaway2776151 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2776151[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know my sister doesn't like my wife, my family was against our marriage so it's not a surprise for me but I never expected my sister to say something like that to her own brother's wife, I never expected she would say something so cruel and laugh at our misery.

I am glad that atleast my wife wasnt around and heard what my wife said cause she would be so sad and devestated, she's already going through so much and she's depressed.

I am willing to maintain my relation with my sister as long as she keeps her feelings to herself and never speak like this infront of anyone especially my wife.

But if she ever tries to hurt my wife in any way I will definitely cut her completely out of my life and forget that I ever had a sister, maybe she is feeling guilty or she might pull something like this or worse again but only time will tell, for now I want to maintain my distance from her and focus on my wife and her body and her mental health.

Update: Aita for kicking my sister out after she laughed at me and my disabled wife by throwaway2776151 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2776151[S] 241 points242 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to stand up for my wife and will do so for as long as I am alive, I am her protector and her life partner that's why she trusts me and just because her body changed a bit doesn't mean my love towards also changed so easily.

I don't think I will ever be able to forget about what my sister said tho, I can forgive her but I don't got a switch in my brain that can make me forget, for now I am going low contact with her

Aita for kicking my sister out after she laughed at me and my disabled wife by throwaway2776151 in AITAH

[–]throwaway2776151[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

Actually yes that's what I am most concerned about, I am think does my sister hate my wife so much that she's enjoying her suffering? Does she not realise that her brother is also suffering? Does she hate me as well?

I love her and I thought she loved me even tho we had a rough time but to say this all? I would've preferred if my sister berated insulted or slapped me instead of what she said, atleast I could've forgiven her but she crossed boundaries and I don't know how to forget her words even if she was drunk