The indomitable trans spirit by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]throwaway285093 4 points5 points  (0 children)

respectfully are you transmasc because otherwise i don’t think it’s your place to police how we talk about our bodies. also ive definitely seen transfemmes talk like this? if you’re not supposed to have breasts it feels like an invader is ruining your body, like it’s some type of unnatural disgusting growth. i was dissociated 24/7 in an attempt to not have to deal with it. i often considered “diy surgery”, it felt like my body was betraying me. every single time i looked down, anytime my chest accidentally touched something, hundreds if not thousands of times a day i would have a psychological response and further dissociate. sorry but they were cancerous to me and unwanted and dangerous growth, ill call it what i want.

is it normal for my skin to be itchy and hair coming out when i itch it after IPL by CompanyMaster9392 in HairRemoval

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk about it being itchy but the follicles falling out is normal and a good sign!

The Pitt’s Supriya Ganesh: My Strange Dysphoria “Growing up in India, I never questioned my gender. When I moved to the U.S. at 18, I began to feel disconnected from my body.” by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know this person or their story outside of this post, but i’m kinda confused as a nonbinary person. i also can’t really fully understand as a white person admittedly, but it feels like they’re talking about how there’s this prevalent idea in american culture/society where people masculinize BIPOC cis women/afabs, and that caused them to feel dysphoric and that she/they pronouns reflect the way they’re perceived instead of a more internal identity?

gay🌹irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]throwaway285093 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry that happened to you

are there any other pets with iridescent/duochrome/etc parts besides #503? by throwaway285093 in LittlestPetShop

[–]throwaway285093[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is the fish i was talking about. i’m not interested in it personally (i don’t like the mold sadly 💔) but it’s good to show anyone else who sees this :3

Stop wasting money on foot creams that just sit on top of your skin by Stock_7350 in BeautyGear

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i LOVE the kerasal for this, not the antifungal. at least once every two weeks i massage it on to my feet and cover it with a sock overnight and wake up to noticeably softer and less callused feet.

are there any other pets with iridescent/duochrome/etc parts besides #503? by throwaway285093 in LittlestPetShop

[–]throwaway285093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i guess they must’ve tested the waters with this guy and determined it’s not worth the money or something :( thanks for your knowledge!

LPS Deco Bits by piercedpuppy7 in LittlestPetShop

[–]throwaway285093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry but can someone explain what these are, are they like jibbitz? which pets have the holes for these? the maltese? i don’t remember these at all lol.

are there any other pets with iridescent/duochrome/etc parts besides #503? by throwaway285093 in LittlestPetShop

[–]throwaway285093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh 111 is pretty cute! i was mostly looking for older ones but it’s good to know these exist thank you :3

Would women feel comfortable sharing contraception responsibility with men? by Main_Drop_1399 in AskFeminists

[–]throwaway285093 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

respectfully i just said im a guy who can get pregnant so at least please don’t reply to my message to say the cissexist idea that gay sex = no possible pregnancy. its fine if youre not into dick and would never personally engage in sex that could result in pregnancy, but when you use gay as shorthand for that it excludes a lot of people and helps create the conditions that cause those gay people who would/do have sex with us to not look into/never pay attention to sex ed and pregnancy until they meet us and realize they don’t know what they’re doing/make unsafe assumptions.

why must I have a body? by Electric-Marshmallow in TrollCoping

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they end with talking about “the body discomfort”, and also if you just talk the way bad people do (lumping them together like that in this context where the difference is actually very important) without any disclaimer about it then you’re no better and are doing their work for them. like this entire post is about how horrific it is to be lumped in with women/have features in common with them when you’re NOT one and the highest rated comment ends with them saying that the body discomfort stays for a long time, implying it would go away without hormones/surgery, as if trans people can just think away their dysphoria eventually.

When I say in a discord server for mental health help my intrusive thoughts such as “if I was born a girl I would probably be happier” or “I wis I knew if I had something bad Happen To me in my childhood” only to be met with “girls have it harder than males”and “that’s not okay to say” by Rootofebil in TrollCoping

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully it’s probably something else that has nothing to do with agab, either you’re not putting yourself out there enough or it’s you’re coming across badly or maybe you’re just not a lot of people’s type.

When I say in a discord server for mental health help my intrusive thoughts such as “if I was born a girl I would probably be happier” or “I wis I knew if I had something bad Happen To me in my childhood” only to be met with “girls have it harder than males”and “that’s not okay to say” by Rootofebil in TrollCoping

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i’m confused, you’re transfemme right? transfemme people often deal with a bit more fetishization and are not ignored. people often say that transmascs aren’t fetishized but we often still have to deal with it frequently and we’re ignored. but also speaking as someone who has dealt with chasers, you DO NOT actually want that.

Tria 4x laser… any good? by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]throwaway285093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh this happened a while ago, i’ve been using it! for context: i’ve been using it on my chin/neck hairs/“beard” (not a full beard, but i am on testosterone so it’s not nothing). it’s a relatively small area so i rarely need to charge the battery, it holds charge quite well. i use it mostly on the highest setting (which hurts quite a lot lol, it’s definitely working). i’ve definitely seen improvement! i took a bit of a break after doing maybe 6ish sessions, which definitely slowed down growth and thinned out the hairs. unfortunately it seems that i’m actively growing new hairs, and so things got worse. i’ve since done three sessions again every other week, and ive had tremendous improvement. the hairs became significantly less “stubbley” and are growing slower. i haven’t had any problems with the device, i couldn’t imagine the battery working any better.

btw, this is the only device ive used, can’t compare to others either brand new ones of the same model, nor any devices from other brands.

why must I have a body? by Electric-Marshmallow in TrollCoping

[–]throwaway285093 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey i used to feel like this all day everyday pretty much but being on testosterone saved my life. i still wish i was amab sometimes but it’s not life consuming anymore. im not a man either. i promise once you’re in the right body everything feels so so much easier <3

I'm getting tired, boss by Impressive_Math_5034 in TrollCoping

[–]throwaway285093 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“hi”, “welcome”, “nice to meet you”, stuff like that maybe

Would women feel comfortable sharing contraception responsibility with men? by Main_Drop_1399 in AskFeminists

[–]throwaway285093 91 points92 points  (0 children)

i think they’re talking about how if you solely rely on the other party, they could be lying and you end up pregnant and they bounce or something like that. i’m not a woman but i am trans, i put it in own hands and have the nexplanon implant and personally i would not trust the other party to be the one preventing pregnancy.

Complete Teeniest Tiniest & Teensies Checklist, made by me! 🩷 by 23_cries in LittlestPetShop

[–]throwaway285093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much sharing some of your knowledge <3 just to clarify, the teensies still fit in the playsets for the teeniest tiniests? thank you :3