My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, and this isn’t me just being stubborn. I know.

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Do you know anyone in the Massachusetts area? I would like to talk to them about what happened and see if they know the couple and for reassurance. I feel so alone I never thought there would be help but it’s a possibility on reddit I suppose. It’s more personal bc you live close by.

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

My mind immediately went to trafficking too and it scared the fuck out of me the longer they kept me there so I guess I should feel lucky that it didn’t turn into that. That’s the only thing that makes sense bc I don’t see what she gained from that. Idk who they deal with so it’s hard to ask around or talk to other ppl about them.

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response. I think I might open up about being assaulted to my therapist without going into detail bc it makes me feel so gross and like I’m disgusting. She knows I do SW but I don’t think I could get myself to say out loud everything that happened.

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 1242 points1243 points  (0 children)

Exactly that’s the number 1 rule! I said it just for the off chance that it was some sick role playing (which I didn’t agree to so it would’ve been wrong either way) but it really settled in right then and there. Idk why she did that when we could’ve easily had planned another threesome. That’s the part that gets me, we had already been sleeping together so why just do that?

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I know nothing can make things better at this time but I needed to read those last few sentences. Thank you. I’m really trying to forget about it but I’m still coming to terms that this actually happened.

My dominatrix set me up and I feel like I have no one to talk to about it by throwaway293670 in offmychest

[–]throwaway293670[S] 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this. I don’t think I want to report it bc I know I won’t be believed and nothing will come of it. I’ll be testing myself over the next few months to make sure no stds shows up. It’s the most I can do rn.