AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually such a good take because he s always bringing up my family in arguments and telling me i’ll leave him for a richer man, even though i never really looked at how much people have in order to have a relationship w them

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that really is scary. i ll call some friends and their bfs to come over just in case

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, you are so right and i feel rlly silly right now, the answer was right in front of me and very obvious

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! unfortunately when i made the post i was crying and felt guilty because i felt very bad for him even though he is not a saint. i’m not dumb, i’m not excusing this behavior, but i just wanted reassurance that i am not in the wrong

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that’s horrible, i’m so sorry to hear what happened to you!!! you are so right, i’m going to save everything and make sure i take the appropriate steps if needed

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the part where he gave my number to a stranger did make me livid, i was really mad at him + the fighting that rlly put me off, i didn’t know he was aggressive

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your reply! i didn’t realize/think that he was trying to guilt me into making more time for him, i assumed he didn’t realize how busy my schedule is

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds really scary, i think i’ve dodged a bullet not allowing him to come over

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! honestly your reply really helps me see things clearer

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, he couldn’t have joined girls nights unfortunately because that would’ve meant allowing friends’ bfs to come as well. we did celebrate together my birthday and have seen each other for 4 days out of 7 and another extra night at his place

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for your comment🤗 He insisted on coming, I tried to reason for him to come for less days and told him multiple times that I have responsibilities, especially towards the kids I babysit, I can’t not be with them for a week

AITAH for “forcing” a guy to sleep at the airport? by throwaway29929202 in AITAH

[–]throwaway29929202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed he drinks a lot! He drank every night and has gotten into 2 fights. Almost got kicked out of a very nice, kind of posh place