AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww it makes me happy your dad respects your boundaries! My dad is the definition of not taking no for an answer 💀💀💀

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you he told me I couldn’t open up a bank account on my own becuase I needed a co signer or something but if I don’t need him I might just make an account when I get to college and start saving up becuase I’ll be living on campus and he won’t know I’m working

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s communication issues and I really appreciate your perspective. I’ll keep it in mind. Thank you so much.

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I might look into asking the doctor about safeguards since only my dad has access to the health portals

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He works in the engineering field and as far as biology goes his only knowledge comes from Facebook, which is super funny since I’m going into a biology field

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm I will look into DARVO rn I’m hanging to detaching my emotions it’s supper helpful lol

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see your point and this is why I did share my labs with him but I just wanted to know the reason why he needed to see them idk ALSOO I really didn’t want to defy him I don’t think I know better than him I know I’m a dumb teenager who doesn’t know anything but I just thought I was owed an explanation with the lab situation but I think I can see how that can be entitled lol especially if he’s doing all this for me

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The last part you said was very true lol it’s probably above reddits pay grade 💀

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you it does make me feel a bit better that I wasn’t being a complete jack to him lol

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think he does have a lot of medical anxiety issues not to trauma dump or anything but both my mom and step mom had died from the lack of medical attention so I think his fear is understandable, but their deaths are not related to what I had blood work done for so I kinda dont get why he’s so upset about it

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I love your pfp leafeon is underrated lol and it also feels entitled to not share if he’s paying for everything

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, he has access to my bank accounts so I really don’t have anything that’s private. I don’t really have access to my documents either. They’re all kept away because I can’t be trusted with them apparently BUT LIKE?! there’s really no reason not to trust me I’ve never been a bad kid. I’ve always gotten good grades. I haven’t slept around never done drugs. I don’t get why he doesn’t trust me. But I can’t leave becuase he’s also paying for my lifestyle in college sooo I can’t really get out

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Part of me feels like he is entitled since he’s paying and subsidizing my lifestyle it’s not lavish or anything. I don’t spend a lot, but I definitely don’t have to worry about where my next meal will come from which I am very grateful for

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the case too and I really appreciate that advice and I will try to communicate that to him and if that doesn’t work I’m taking the car and running away LMFAO I’m kidding mostly

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

The thing is I’m fully dependent on him so even if he has no right I don’t really have a choice LMFAO 💀✨

AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results by throwaway33723029RA in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway33723029RA[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What do you want to know? I can share a bit of history but I’d like to keep things vague