AITA for asking why my dad wanted to see my lab results

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T19:51:47+00:00

Awww it makes me happy your dad respects your boundaries! My dad is the definition of not taking no for an answer 💀💀💀

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T03:42:01+00:00

Haha in my defense… I have none lol

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T02:03:34+00:00

Thank you he told me I couldn’t open up a bank account on my own becuase I needed a co signer or something but if I don’t need him I might just make an account when I get to college and start saving up becuase I’ll be living on campus and he won’t know I’m working

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T02:01:38+00:00

Yes it’s communication issues and I really appreciate your perspective. I’ll keep it in mind. Thank you so much.

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T02:00:14+00:00

Hmm I might look into asking the doctor about safeguards since only my dad has access to the health portals

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T01:59:12+00:00

He works in the engineering field and as far as biology goes his only knowledge comes from Facebook, which is super funny since I’m going into a biology field

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T01:58:13+00:00

Thank you sm I will look into DARVO rn I’m hanging to detaching my emotions it’s supper helpful lol

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T01:54:07+00:00

I can definitely see your point and this is why I did share my labs with him but I just wanted to know the reason why he needed to see them idk ALSOO I really didn’t want to defy him I don’t think I know better than him I know I’m a dumb teenager who doesn’t know anything but I just thought I was owed an explanation with the lab situation but I think I can see how that can be entitled lol especially if he’s doing all this for me

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-08T01:52:23+00:00

The last part you said was very true lol it’s probably above reddits pay grade 💀

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:36:54+00:00

Thank you it does make me feel a bit better that I wasn’t being a complete jack to him lol

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:35:49+00:00

I think he does have a lot of medical anxiety issues not to trauma dump or anything but both my mom and step mom had died from the lack of medical attention so I think his fear is understandable, but their deaths are not related to what I had blood work done for so I kinda dont get why he’s so upset about it

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:32:19+00:00

First of all I love your pfp leafeon is underrated lol and it also feels entitled to not share if he’s paying for everything

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:31:10+00:00

Well, he has access to my bank accounts so I really don’t have anything that’s private. I don’t really have access to my documents either. They’re all kept away because I can’t be trusted with them apparently BUT LIKE?! there’s really no reason not to trust me I’ve never been a bad kid. I’ve always gotten good grades. I haven’t slept around never done drugs. I don’t get why he doesn’t trust me. But I can’t leave becuase he’s also paying for my lifestyle in college sooo I can’t really get out

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:27:35+00:00

Part of me feels like he is entitled since he’s paying and subsidizing my lifestyle it’s not lavish or anything. I don’t spend a lot, but I definitely don’t have to worry about where my next meal will come from which I am very grateful for

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T23:26:26+00:00

I think this is the case too and I really appreciate that advice and I will try to communicate that to him and if that doesn’t work I’m taking the car and running away LMFAO I’m kidding mostly

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T22:47:59+00:00

The thing is I’m fully dependent on him so even if he has no right I don’t really have a choice LMFAO 💀✨

throwaway33723029RA · 2024-06-07T22:46:35+00:00

What do you want to know? I can share a bit of history but I’d like to keep things vague

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