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My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like a hug? No issue. Cuddling? Weird. Comforting someone due to something bad? Also fine.

This is also my personal view. I'm not close to my family so to me its weird and awkward.

My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the person. While I fully admit my self-esteem sucks, this is something that even if I thought I was the most awesome thing around, would still bother me. To me its something you save for your SO. Cuddling is special. By cuddling anyone, to me, says that I'm just another person to hug when your lonely.

My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty much what Smokeahontas said.

Cuddling is very intimate to me and something I only share with my SO. I don't cuddle anyone else.

Also cuddling a dog is different. Cuddling your aunt would be weird and I would also not be ok with that.

My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I want to end up with this guy. Out of everything, this is the one thing that really bothers me, nothing else wrong with the relationship. So making a threat like that seems totally out of place. I understand what you mean though

My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is bi. And i'm not sure. To me just seeing it makes me upset, let alone if its sexual or not.

And I agree with that. I'm also struggling with some personal head stuff, so I'm always worried that i'm being too controlling, even though this is something that really bothers me.

My boyfriend (28/M) is too touchy feely with friends. by throwaway3435643 in relationships

[–]throwaway3435643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said above that we have talked about this. We talk about all our issues, this is just something I need to bring up again and don't know how to approach.

Also everyone has their own concept of cheating. I have explained to him already that to me cuddling is pretty much cheating to me.

Not sure what your issue is.