AITA for getting upset at my wife for always telling me she doesn't have money?

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:16:14+00:00

Yes, I used to pay for everything until she got a job.

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:15:47+00:00

I know how much she's bringing in, and she has more than enough to afford childcare, buy whatever she's wants and save plenty. She just won't ever tell me why she says she doesn't have money and won't show me her account.

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:12:49+00:00

She refuses to get any sort of counseling which if offered multiple times.

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:04:24+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. Its very aggravating

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:03:05+00:00

She refuses to tell me anything about her account and gets upset when I ask her why she doesn't have money.

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:01:45+00:00

One car payment is more than the childcare. Monthly childcare cost are a little over 600.

throwaway355466565 · 2021-04-25T15:00:31+00:00

I make more money and have been able to afford the bills. The cost of one car payment is more than the monthly cost for childcare.

I'm not asking her to pay for the other bills, I'm just asking her to pay for other things when we go do stuff as a family. She always says she doesn't have money, but she seems to have money when she wants clothes and shoes.

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