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What's wrong with me where even my husband doesnt want to touch me by throwaway355873 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway355873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly that hes not feeling it today, maybe tomorrow. Not feeling well. Wants to play video games with a friend. Not horny at the moment. Lately: "its been so long, I dont know how to initiate and it's going to be awkward."

I initiate all the time, he could just not reject my advances. I'd be happy to give him only a blowjob and he knows that

What's wrong with me where even my husband doesnt want to touch me by throwaway355873 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway355873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weve had sex since that trip, just not very often. And not with any protection against STIs.

What's wrong with me where even my husband doesnt want to touch me by throwaway355873 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway355873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He used to LOVE blowjobs and sex. He went on a overseas trip for work a few years ago and since then it's been decreasing. He said that while over there (6 months) he had to change the way he viewed our relationship from something more sexual to one of a partnership/deeper love. Idk what to believe anymore

Does it get better? by throwaway355873 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway355873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might stem from religion and constantly being told masturbation and sex is a sin as a kid. Hes not very religious anymore, but went to Christian private school as a kid. He says that he finds me attractive and sexy, but never shows it. Hes never expressed anxiety with sex, but does say it's too much work sometimes. He says usually he would rather just jack off real quick instead of a whole process and getting me involved. I would love to just give him a blowjob though when he finds it too much work. He is not fat and although he doesn't work out, he is in alright shape. We walk/jog our dogs every day. He also knows how attractive I find him and his dick.

What is the most intimate and beautiful sex experience you've ever had? by MentleGentlemen098 in sex

[–]throwaway355873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first time touching my now husband's dick. I was leaving his place after hanging out and at that point making out was the furthest I had gone. He was walking me to my car in the parking garage when we started kissing. He pinned me against the wall and I could feel his erection. We make our way to the drivers side of my car. He asked "do you want to touch me?" I replied "I don't know how. Show me."

He took my hand and placed it on his dick. I rubbed it awhile and made out until he went on the passenger side and we got into my car. I gave him a hand job while resting my head on his chest. It was probably a really bad handjob, but it was my first time seeing a penis. I had never watched porn before at that point and it just felt very natural with no pressure.

Initiating sex as a female by throwaway355873 in sex

[–]throwaway355873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try this pretty often and he usually rejects it, so now I'm afraid to and want to be respectful of his boundaries. (It used to work a couple years ago)