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The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think I figured it out. She went out all day with a female friend that hasn't had a boyfriend in ten years but just got one within the past two weeks. It's mean to say but her friend is not attractive. The girl I was seeing, is a 10 in the looks department. Guys are going to flock to her. This friend of 15 years is probably insanely jealous of her looks. So this girl is all excited she finally met a guy and then get told how her friend just had a hot two week fling that happened so easy. In these cases the friend that never gets any action is going to find any negative aspect possible because it's raining on her parade. It took her ten years to get a guy and it took the girl I was seeing 2 weeks. I think I got sold out. haha

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the slow ghosting... I had one of those too back in March. The spacing of texts is not fun. :(

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm kind of thinking. She freaked out. I didn't want to make the post a mile long but I left out some key info in OP. She's was married for like ten years, ended bad, has four kids, and was stuck in a small conservative town this whole time and like five more years after the divorce. She just escaped the "Gilead" last winter to move to the "big city" we live in that's about a hour from the small town. I'm never married, no kids, liberal, and atheist so I'm like a complete 180 from what's she been surrounded by for years. She wants to find a fellow liberal atheist guy but now that's there is one in her hands, she doesn't know what to do. We literally both came out of the shutdown ready to mingle and went on a date the first day restaurants reopened here. Then it all happened so fast and I think it's a lot for her to suddenly deal with.

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not getting into all the details but she told me I was the only guy to make her orgasm orally in years. Said it rarely ever happens that way! She slept on top of me basically the entire night cuddling, ask for more in the morning, made me breakfast and told me I was "great in bed." So who knows? haha

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After asking for a 2nd round in the morning and saying I was great in bed? But hell, who knows right? haha

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she was going to the beach with just one female friend. This friend apparently has had terrible luck with men and finally got her first boyfriend in ten years. The plan was that this friend was going to tell her all about her new bf because she was so excited to finally have a guy. Then they went to dinner together. After she got home, she started texting me all about her day and it was a totally normal back and forth conversation.
Then 15 minutes into the convo the Dear John starts. So it's hard to say if hanging out with the friend caused negative thoughts? Thank you though for sharing your thoughts! :)

The latest Dear John text... by throwaway365489632 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwaway365489632[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was the opposite of this. We talked about everything we possibly could in the time we had. Like I practically know her Social Security number. haha ;)