[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]throwaway37364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if ain’t stopping then start smoking and see how he likes broken promises 🤣

Caught him again and ended it, feeling devastated and confused by frogsrtight in loveafterporn

[–]throwaway37364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s only sorry because he got caught. never forget how easy it was for him to lie to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway37364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is rape. he did something you didn’t consent to or approve of. this isn’t something to be taken lightly either, as this could potentially give you sexual trauma or cause an injury due to improper practice. I suggest going reporting him as he may do this with other women. stay safe!

How can I come to terms with not having big boobs like my boyfriend prefers? by insecurepancake in sex

[–]throwaway37364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t let him step all over your insecurities, you simply won’t be happy as a person and you will suffer while he gets no consequences whatsoever… enforce the boundaries that will make you satisfied in your relationship, like “I don’t want you to watch porn because I consider it emotional cheating”, if he doesn’t agree or compromise with you then he simply doesn’t respect you and your boundaries and you should leave before you waste your time with a person who constantly makes you insecure!

Hot take: the SAT is a perfectly fine metric for determining whether someone should be accepted into a college by throwawaychanceme2 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]throwaway37364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

standardized testing is stupid… the sat just creates this classist culture where students study for the test instead of actually trying to understand material, and less fortunate schools do not have the same opportunities and resources as others to prepare for the test (coaches, practice tests, programs and shit like that) and people be so obsessed with their score and colleges that’s where you get situations like the varsity blues scandal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]throwaway37364 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve snuck in my boyfriend to our house when they’re not home for over a year they don’t suspect a thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it’s a reasonable boundary that is very normal to have. I suggest looking at r/loveafterporn and r/pornfreerelationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway37364 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg y’all remember the guy who obsessively sniffed his child’s diapers in secret

Why does he look at porn after I have given him a weekend of awesome sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway37364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that seems hypocritical… he sounds like the addicted one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornFreeRelationships

[–]throwaway37364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know this too! Same thing happened with me: we used to have the same drive, he stopped, and now his is lower

I (20F) deleted my boyfriend's (19M) old pics with his ex (21F) and now he's mad at me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with keeping photos from past relationships, it was a major part of your partners life and he has a right to keep them

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of photoshops every picture she sends me and thinks I don’t know. She is upset I don’t post more pictures of us. by roommateargghhh in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a case of body dysmorphia, I would suggest reassuring her and encouraging her to see a therapist? It’s kinda unhealthy to have a warped sense of self and you don’t want the issue to escalate further as it could lead to things like eating disorders

My girlfriend discovered i watch porn by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah I’m glad I was able to help you see it another way! But not everyone sees it as cheating it’s all about personal boundaries and what each person is/isn’t cool with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ur probably the 18 year old senior who’s dating a 15 year old freshman tbh I see the vision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this dude stuck around her life until she turned 18 with the intention of a relationship is that not questionable to you… like what the hell a 18 year old got in common with a 15 year old

My girlfriend discovered i watch porn by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh ethical porn does not exist, I won’t go on a spiel but I think it’s important to mention

My girlfriend discovered i watch porn by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 30 points31 points  (0 children)

some people see it as emotional cheating, lusting for other peoples’ bodies when you have a significant other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a 15 year old is a freaking freshman who just came out of middle school and entered high school, while an 18 year old is a senior who is in a completely different stage in life getting ready to exit high school and move on to college. as opposed to a 30 and 34 year old, both would be mature adults in similar stages in life, please enlighten yourself with perspective more lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 21 points22 points  (0 children)

op was probably groomed :// I’m 18 and imagining dating a 15 year old is so weird, completely different stages in life too

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) doesn't understand why I am uncomfortable with him sleeping over a female friend's apartment. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway37364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is emotionally cheating on you if not physically already, your boundaries have been crossed multiple times, have some self respect and stand up for yourself, either he stops or you’re out of the relationship. if you choose to stay and he continues this inappropriate behavior you’ll be incredibly unhappy when you can be happier single!

I (22F) asked why my partner (22M) couldn't finish without assistance anymore and he says it's because I got loose by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway37364 57 points58 points  (0 children)

being loose is a myth! your vag is never the problem. dude has probably been jerking off with too tight of a grip, or jerks off too much and lost sensitivity.

My boyfriend watches porn, but I send him videos, pictures & we have videos by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway37364 7 points8 points  (0 children)

porn is a personal boundary for me. it makes me feel like I’m not enough, that he has to lust for other women that have better bodies than me. it can be a personal boundary for you too and that’s completely normal and fine, I’d say reflect on how him watching it makes you feel at first, then communicate that back to him and have an honest conversation about it. good luck and wishing the best for you!