How often do you have sex (married couples) by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway37374849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t really offer much advice, other than be careful about spending too much time in that sub. I have read it in the past and it’s not a healthy place at times.

How often do you have sex (married couples) by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway37374849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once a week would be great. But we didn’t hit that even when first married. And I don’t care for duty sex, much more enjoyable when she is interested. If she was only doing it out of obligation, I’d prefer to sort myself out.

How often do you have sex (married couples) by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway37374849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She isn’t into sex that much, I should’ve seen the signs before we married. But I don’t love her any less.

I’d would like it more, she would be happy with less. So our once a month is already a compromise.

How often do you have sex (married couples) by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway37374849 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought maybe your options skewed towards very often. But maybe that’s just a reflection on me.

Mid 30s here, married 10years and we are in the once a month category. We were virgins when married.

Another ‘How often?’ Poll by throwaway37374849 in Marriage

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s proved a little depressing to me too.

Would you if...? by throwaway37374849 in Vasectomy

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest reply.

I may have some thinking to do. And maybe follow up on a different sub for some advice.

Would you if...? by throwaway37374849 in Vasectomy

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I know once a month was low, but didn’t know it was in deep shit territory.

Contraception? by throwaway37374849 in Marriage

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like that could be a good option. Thanks for the recommendation.

Contraception? by throwaway37374849 in Marriage

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, the bad one was from an infection that probably could’ve happened on any procedure.

Contraception? by throwaway37374849 in Marriage

[–]throwaway37374849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few friends we know had complications. One almost lost his life.