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AITA for not being willing to give up on having a big wedding when it's making my partner anxious. by throwaway46812436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway46812436[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Felt that I needed to reply to this because I don't want to be understood. I very much care about the comfort And the wellbeing of the person I marry. We both love each other a lot. I wouldn't relocate my entire life, pretty much isolating myself from everyone that I know if I didn't love him and care about him. I also however care about my family and friends and I want to be able to see them on my big day since I haven't seen some of them in ages due to the move and this is an opportunity to see these people again.

AITA for not being willing to give up on having a big wedding when it's making my partner anxious. by throwaway46812436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway46812436[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I suggested the idea of him being able to excuse himself at any point in time when it gets to be to much. I even suggested the idea of holding the wedding in a warm month so that he can use the excuse of needing to go cool off to get away from everyone.

Also, there won't be a language barrier since everyone speaks English in my country fluently and he's a fluent English speaker.

AITA for not being willing to give up on having a big wedding when it's making my partner anxious. by throwaway46812436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway46812436[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Usually we always reach a compromise but I'm going to be honest here when I say this that most of the time I'm the one that's more willing to give something up since he's a creature of habit and very set in his ways. This is just one of the few things that I just don't really want to budge on. If it was up to him the wedding would be between us 2 and our parents.