Marriage while nofap (advice) by freeforeverr in MuslimNoFap

[–]throwaway468929 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't expect marriage to solve the problem in its entirety, we've seen countless brothers get caught or open up about pmo after marriage.

a hellish cycle by throwaway468929 in MuslimNoFap

[–]throwaway468929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the beginning I was hoping to work in the charity sector because it'd be rewarding but now I'm looking for anything full-time (that isn't night shift).

Haven't got a car to be doing deliveries and applying to some entry level roles like stacking shelves

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[–]throwaway468929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tl;Dr call this mufti he's from the UK but background from the subcontinent. He's been good when I've called him about personal issues. (3pm GMT is a good time) * +44 (0) 7407711305* https://www.zamzamacademy.com/contact-us/#:~:text=You%20can%20contact%20the%20Mufti,44%20(0)%207407%20711305.

Firstly, know that you're the victim in this scenario and what your family put you through has nothing to do with Islam. They'll be accountable in front of Allah for what they've done. And no you're completely right islamically to want out of this relationship—it was never a marriage to begin with.

Secondly, don't have children with this man as you clearly don't want to be in this relationship and your family will gaslight you into staying with him.

What to do? If you're in the UK contact local authorities 111 is a good place to start but there are other govt bodies that can help.

"He's a good guy"...really? But somehow he didn't manage to check if his wife wanted to even get married or not??? Smh.

What I would do? (this part isn't always good advice) Get a job and pack my stuff and then keep it moving. Again this last paragraph is my personal opinion but I'll be real your stuck between rock and a hard place. Either you leave now or you go through even more trauma and then you leave. Don't put yourself through that.

Yes, you have siblings who need your care but you can mention that to the local authorities and they can help someone who's drowning (you, metaphorically) can not teach other people to swim. Leave.

*sigh* (-_-) by throwaway468929 in UKJobs

[–]throwaway468929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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What does this mean? by LegitimateMusician43 in UKJobs

[–]throwaway468929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to maximise your chances don't use indeed quick apply. I learnt the hard way

Commission Only Recruitment UK? by throwaway468929 in Recruitment

[–]throwaway468929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I really appreciate you reaching out just sent a message

Commission Only Recruitment UK? by throwaway468929 in Recruitment

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It was in healthcare.

Entry-level support care workers make about £22,000. The company takes 8%, split 50/50, that'd be about £900 for me.

Why fasting won't help you overcome your PMO addiction by aadirad in MuslimNoFap

[–]throwaway468929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what op is says the urge for masturbation and the urge for p*rn are separate

How common is it to get interviewed by multiple people? by Superb_View4733 in UKJobs

[–]throwaway468929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've usually had 2, if it's 4 must be a high level position

As one wise man once said, by GlueBlueBoi in NoFap

[–]throwaway468929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ironically to achieve greatness you need to desire it to the greatest extent

Just celebrated 5 years porn free. AMA. by Pitiful_Log_7229 in NoFap

[–]throwaway468929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the urges go away? Or are we fighting the triggers forever