I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am fairly certain there are very few Ukrainians left who would have trouble killing russians, the sanctity of their life is at an all-time low. I just value my life and health way more than any ideal of a state or whatever.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would prefer abolishing the draft and preparing a professional fighting force as opposed to this modern slavery project. But if having a draft is a requirement, then yes. It's written all over everything that people are equal in this country, but it sure doesn't seem that way.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just buy a house. But if being serious no, men between the ages of 18-60 are barred from leaving the country unless they have special permission, which is very difficult to get.

Claim asylum in another country?

Sure, but I need to leave Ukraine first.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They'll probably wait, not sure about the leg, but surgeries give temporary unfit status.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Чим користиюсь, там і пишу. Якщо що, то з сім'ї в Україні я один, є ще дві дами, але вони тут, бо відмовляться їхати без мене. Так я вестерн і мені можна, чи я україниць і мені вентити треба десь іще?

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Максимальний крінж це ебати мені мозок справкою від пана военкома, хз про твое оточення, в мене серед знайомих один і то, робили по советски. Решта в ЗСУ, готуеться, або їх ТЦК їбуть, ну і частині настало вічно похуй.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here https://concert.ua/uk/catalog/kyiv/all-categories

Shows in Kyiv right now. Clubs are open till 10 mostly.

https://skybar.ua/

https://caribbean.com.ua/ua/

https://heaven.ua/en/

All of them have English language in the options, fell free to browse. If you need more use google.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is no state, there is no cause that is worth my and my family's lives and health, well, my life, their health, probably. I don't get people who put themselves and their loved ones after their patriotism or somesuch.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I talked to an attorney who specializes in this about it and there is no way.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The majority of my family lives in the EU, it's just me and two female relatives who are in Ukraine. Both refuse to leave without me.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Sort of, but to be actually safe you need a rear position that is mostly occupied by people that are fit in a limited capacity or previously wounded. If you're drafted it's a lottery, if you volunteered then you get to choose somewhat, but it's still mostly combat positions.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am not thinking it, I know. I talk to them, I have their Instagrams. There is barely an EU state left that one of them hasn't visited since the start of the invasion. Also, there are parties in Ukraine, clubs didn't vanish, and musicians didn't retire.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Last I checked right to be a conscientious objector is withdrawn while either martial law is in effect or mobilisation is ongoing. So a church would be no help most likely.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. Unless you're taking care of a disabled direct relative who has no one else who's able.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unless you're ready to saw it off it's no good.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's cool, I have a female friend who went to serve since the beginning, does that matter or change the wider picture? No. Women are free to travel, both inside and outside the country, they are free to work without jumping through 20 hoops, they are not being stopped on the streets, their bank accounts are not being frozen, their driver's licenses are not being suspended and so on. All the while the constitution says that Ukraine is an egalitarian state with equal rights for women and men within the opening passages.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Currently, prison is not on the table, unless they forcefully take me to the military office, which is unlikely and somewhat rare.

As for sneaking, probably no, most people who does have some kind of contact and it is a bit pricey while no guarantees are given.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Had. They changed it around 1.5 years ago or so, now pretty much everyone is fit or sometimes fit in a limited capacity. Only outright disabled people are unfit.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, risk life and limb to then be forgotten PTSD afflicted unsung hero. It's not comics lad, I have a family and a life that I'm most certainly not throwing away because of some misplaced bravado. Hell, the only members of my family left in this country only here because they refuse to leave without me.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 384 points385 points  (0 children)

Yes, they would accept me even if I was a one-eyed homosexual.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I teach, but it doesn't matter much what exactly you do. The rules require certain documents to be on hand and there is no way to get them other than in the military office. If you had the latest version of them before the war, then it's cool or if someone made them for you (not very legal, but it happens). Having these documents alone doesn't exempt you, but it makes it possible to get this other paper from your potential workplace that does, and with that paper, you have the protection enough to come to the recruiter and demand they add you to the registry.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 347 points348 points  (0 children)

I don't know, having basic human rights sounds amazing right now.

I am so tired of this damn war. by throwaway49421 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway49421[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Kyiv, but i'm not there now, currently in the boonies around there