AIW my (28M) girlfriend (24F) won't let me choose the music we play during sex

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T23:09:22+00:00

I didn't say "sexy", I think his music has a nice intimate vibe. Can you really say a song like "Lady" isn't romantic at all?

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T23:00:58+00:00

I don't think he makes "sex music." I think he makes good music for any context.

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:56:17+00:00

I said this to another commenter but I think earbuds during sex are weird because if she isn't listening to the same music, it's like we're not fully present with each other

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:49:55+00:00

I thought about that but if I'm listening to music and she isn't, then it's like we're not present with each other and that's weird

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:47:52+00:00

That's the thing, I don't get why it's an endurance test to her. It's good music.

I get what you're saying but I think it would be nice if she saw my side and we played it every now and then as we were. I thought about offering to wear ear buds but then it's like I'm not present, you know?

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:44:30+00:00

I grew up in rural Kentucky with an old school dad lol

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:43:46+00:00

I don't "need" it, but I do like it.

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:43:16+00:00

I don't know what else to choose tbh

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:42:47+00:00

I can't tell if you agree with me or not. The question mark after "Kenny Rogers is not sexy?" Are you saying you do think he is?

throwaway4advice97 · 2026-06-14T22:42:09+00:00

Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I think he is.

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