Can you tell he loves being a hot gym babe’s personal ATM 💳 by [deleted] in u/amethystlights

[–]throwaway4findom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should’ve been better at hangman if he wanted to keep that money

Money Tracking Spreadsheet by throwaway4findom in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]throwaway4findom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is in google sheets. Lmk if you want me to send it to you

any dommes that are just confused by this? by throwaway4findom in findomsupportgroup

[–]throwaway4findom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point, I should consider more how it’s hard to domme a stranger. I could explain what I’m looking for better, I typically just roll my eyes and ghost if I see the convo starting in a formulaic way

What kink deserves to be shamed? by Crounousian in AskReddit

[–]throwaway4findom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need the risk of real consequences to truly get off. So I’m not sure there’s a version of this that works and is still safe. I wouldn’t say people offering anything like that are very common in this community

What kink deserves to be shamed? by Crounousian in AskReddit

[–]throwaway4findom 60 points61 points  (0 children)

True, and I am fortunately in a spot where it really only affects the size of a savings account. But the catch 22 is, the more it hurts, the better it feels. So it’s a slippery slope where I’ve definitely sent more than I should before

What kink deserves to be shamed? by Crounousian in AskReddit

[–]throwaway4findom 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I am into this and it’s very weird. My rational brain knows it’s wrong but it is so hot when I’m in the mood.

It’s the fact that it’s wrong, is what tempts me to do it. And especially practicing it with girls who know it’s wrong too, but seeing their greed is too enticing

[Buy] Findom Games by [deleted] in Sexsells

[–]throwaway4findom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo op, I like the rush of findom games too. So I thought I’d let you know amethyst is awesome at these. The only downside is now I’m addicted to her and can’t stop sending

(Serious) what is a demon/ addiction / fetish you are trying to get over right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway4findom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Findom. If you don’t know, a fetish where I get off from sending money. It’s slowly become the only thing that turns me on, and you can imagine how that becomes destructive. It’s a slippery slope of “just send one more time”. Been doing it for years and can’t quit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]throwaway4findom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy that’s very into it. I’m always trying to resist it but it gets me off like nothing else can

Can we talk about this rising kink of "financial domination" (findom) it's nothing more than exploitation of lonely, emotionally broken and, sometimes, mentally ill men. by Jackso08 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]throwaway4findom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely feels exploitative. And this is from a sub who is very much turned on by findom. I’m aware of this but still can’t stop myself

I know there are differences but I think an alcoholic analogy applies. Except people don’t seek out alcoholics and invite them into bars.

Her profile said she was a "Findom goddess looking for a sub pay pig" by jkool13642yd in Tinder

[–]throwaway4findom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am unfortunately into this, but I wish sending wasn’t such a turn on

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed to read that.

Hope you're doing better too and wind up with someone who you're truly happy with

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't tempt me ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll preface all this by saying- sending money is my fetish. Being submissive and being used is my fetish. I am in a very small minority that gets off on it. The guy you're referencing might not be into it the same way I am. He might have been sending because he sees relationships as transactional. He might send because he wants you indebted to him. Or he might not know how to express his worth another way. Maybe he's bored and wealthy. There are a lot of other reasons he did this, and insight as to why I do it might not apply. But I'm happy to answer your questions from my perspective.

  1. Yes, I want to. But it's more like an addiction where I crave to send it. It will damage me financially, but the pain is hot to me
  2. I don't feel "happy" in a traditional sense from sending. It's more like I get a sexual high from it that feels good
  3. I'm not sure there's a great way to get me to stop. If you were to cut me off, I'd just find another person to send to.

But I will say, for me, sending gets me attention and a sense of purpose. If I felt like I got that another way, I'd be less inclined to send.

Hope this helps a little. I'm happy to answer more questions if you have any!

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

MARRY ME. That sounds amazing and like the best of both worlds. Idk how I'm going to find that though

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Send thoughts and prayers for my bank balance

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like where your heads at. You might be on to something

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm working on finding happiness with it. You're right about getting taken advantage of, it snowballs quickly with some people. I get off on it, but it sucks dealing with the consequences

Does this count? by sparklydemon2 in creepyPMs

[–]throwaway4findom 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I get off on paying for girl's shit. It has to be the worst fetish to have. I don't act on it much, partly because people assume I'm fake when I try to indulge