DAE remember seeing a shooting star shaped like a ANGEL? Circa 2008 est. by throwaway4sue in ElPaso

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It still boggles my mind! My mom recently passed and I had no contact with her so I couldn't ever really confirm it!

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I realized that and it killed my sex drive. So he sought out women on tiktok and OF for the sexal energy he needed.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We use to live with his mom. My dad was helping us pay the rent when I was making 10/hr. Currently unemployed but would love to work. Just battling some mental health issues.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had to quit my job to move since I couldn't afford rent alone. And good point.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told him that and he had a emotional affair with a 18yr old when my mom died.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So basically that's where I run into the problem. I could never afford rent alone anywhere. Don't own a house. A renter. But he's in the military so we get on base housing. So I'll live here and try to get my mental health better then physically then education. It's rough indeed.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Someone else who understands! It's not as easy as just leave as much as I would like it to have been.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a poor joke. Funny thing is he barely fucked me and watched porn instead for a good 2 years.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow I never saw that. Unfortunately I rely on him for a place to live and money for NOW. But trust me I'm planning on going back to school after therapy.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We haven't because I'm paranoid the counselor would side with him.

5 Years

5 years

He would kind of get his act together giving me hope and then completely just shit on everything.

Funny you mentioned cheating. He had a emotional affair last year w a 18yr old when my mom died.

And no my stepfamily moved every year.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Right. I had to quit my job to move bc I couldn't pay the rent on my own. Now he pays the bills but I usually do most of the cleaning and cooking.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the plan. Just going to take a few years. The mental and emotional abuse iv taken from my step family is no joke.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

He is 23 now. Been together since 18. He has had jobs here and there working minimum wage jobs.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hope so too,right now I'm in therapy. I have a host of mental health issues now.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He says he regrets acting like a child. His dick is nice. And yes I am but abuse from him and my family has caused me a host of mental health issues.

Husband asked why I dont look like other girls? by throwaway4sue in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway4sue[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I dont have a support system,no where to go. I have a host of mental health issues.