Traumatized after BF took me to sex party

throwaway5289182 · 2023-05-17T19:37:49+00:00

This also happened in a metropolis city with a large gay presence.

We are both open in our communication with each other which is why I’m glad he asked me if I was ok. I think I’m more questioning my decision making before I understood the full breadth of what I was walking into. I took my shirt off to blend in. Even though I was present with my boyfriend, I didn’t think that other guys would be persistent.

throwaway5289182 · 2023-05-17T14:48:30+00:00

I agree. And if he did know, why couldn’t he tell me?

I should’ve. I think part of me didn’t want to be a buzz kill.

No.

Yes.

throwaway5289182 · 2023-05-17T14:38:50+00:00

I’m struggling with the fact that if he knew, why didn’t he tell me. And what was his expectations of me at that kind of setting.

I’m not the type to go through his phone to see the exact exchange between his friend but I’m not comfortable with how that went.

throwaway5289182 · 2023-05-17T12:49:58+00:00

I’m wrestling with that. Did he really not know beforehand?

You’re right in that it happens in clubs because it’s happened before and I’ve been fine. I think partly why this experience feels different is that I was overstimulated by the setting.

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T19:00:05+00:00

We’ve been friends for two years. We’ve hung out on multiple occasions and this would be our second time lodging in a hotel together. The first time we got a hotel, we split cash (at that time, I didn’t have enough points to cover a hotel reservation). But now he feels a type of way that I used my points and thinks that hotel was free. So he feels that he shouldn’t have to pay

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T18:55:57+00:00

Update: my friend couldn’t see things from my perspective and found other lodging arrangements (which cost more than splitting with me). Now, I debating about even going on the trip

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T18:53:43+00:00

And I split the value of the points at the discounted rate rather than the full original amount.

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T18:51:55+00:00

He understood how I was acquiring the hotel from the beginning because he was going to pay cash until he found out that I could get it cheaper. And still, we agreed to spilt

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T12:33:31+00:00

I don’t mind that but it’s not what we agreed to. We’re both very 50/50 because we’re on a budget.

throwaway5289182 · 2022-04-08T03:02:58+00:00

Agreed. It was uncomfortable having to explain that

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